Merged: All Love Stories

[aozora]

1st. brod... kamao man ko cant rush things like this... im just venting it out... i not telling her to accept me in 1 gulp...

2nd. it's not like that anymore...

3rd. yeah... sigh... too available... that's 1 paksheet thing i hate bout myself...

anyway... tnx sa post broder... peace...

no probs broder.

what i meant by "you can't hurry love" kay you made the move too fast by going intimate with her diritso, nga dli pa kamo officially lovers in paris (bf/gf). you could have ask her to be exclusive before you do that!
seems to me (again), your basing your love on the sexual desires of your mate and yours.

on your recent long post, overwhelming jud tuod. even me dli ka tuo, if they were true pud, (sorry to say) i will be disgusted. 99% of the people will be (i think) and remaining 1% of those who are not, did the same things as you did. i'm not here to throw stones at you! im just telling that what you did is not to be proud of.

do you think she will be proud to have sumone like you?

OT:
nahimuot ko sa imong "normal" in:

bout this one... normal player ra gud... have ff/fb's, mu's and ons's but what really bothers her... kai hav xpr 3some(me, my bff[guy] and a gal) not just once but 4x ra hinoon...

[opawlicious]

i know... i know... nga d to xa angay ika proud mga butanga... as what she said mga ego booster ra daw to xa... but la naman ko mabuhat a2... those things are made in the past... dugay2x na au ala mahitabo... sigh... anyway... tnx au sa nyo mga comments and pov's guys...

[RainDrizzle07]

oh... dba naa man saying sa english.nah..

"if you can't handle me at worst, you sure don't deserve me at my best"

nya motou jud raba ko anang....
if dli kadawat nmo ang taw sa imong past..kay that person is not really worth it..
though pd ni xa i apply sa uban situation, coz sa imong situation bro..ur gf has some problems within herself... ^_^

[RainDrizzle07]

no probs broder.

what i meant by "you can't hurry love" kay you made the move too fast by going intimate with her diritso, nga dli pa kamo officially lovers in paris (bf/gf). you could have ask her to be exclusive before you do that!
seems to me (again), your basing your love on the sexual desires of your mate and yours.

on your recent long post, overwhelming jud tuod. even me dli ka tuo, if they were true pud, (sorry to say) i will be disgusted. 99% of the people will be (i think) and remaining 1% of those who are not, did the same things as you did. i'm not here to throw stones at you! im just telling that what you did is not to be proud of.

do you think she will be proud to have sumone like you?

OT:
nahimuot ko sa imong "normal" in:

ey aozora not takin this out on you pal, but I just want to comment lang with your post..^_^

you've got a point with regards to doing the intimate before... being exclusive pero btaw there are peole who are doing the intimate stuff withuot even knowing if they've got the real first name correctly...

and in my opinion, their situation will end up lang nta ghapon as CS/FB until he feels what he thinks he is feelin (must be the age, or the karma is workin,or whatever force of nature is playin on him)

I am not disgusted with what he does and I am not doing anything like it ^_^

(it may be true or not, xa ray nakahibalo, if he just want to get our opinion with regards to this kind of situation, and if he is just makin this up,probably he is a psycho ^_^ hahaha)

the very reason why I am not disgusted is because I understand were they are comin from, his gf's pov and his.

(It really sucks when you are born the eldest...coz mother will always say that "you need to understand,coz you are the ate" @_@ which is a very poor excuse to have a spoiled brat sibling, good thing my brother is much saner than I am *winkz*)

At the same time my current bf for 40months now had similar experiences (minus the 3some - though, naa lang xa mga bayot) and it really doesnt bother me, though it is really overwhelming pagsulti nya nako..kay kulit kaayo ko.. how did you do it? what leads to it? blah..blah..blah.. (I am always curious with stuff na I cannot comprehend,lolz) And I am thankful bout his past coz it makes him who is, aside from that mas nindot ng magbiga biga daan...aron ug kamo nah...nahurot ng biga...before nagkakami kay 3 - 5 iyang official gf,d skedule pa na.. way labot ng ka one night stand, ug ka fling2x lang..@_@ pero kad2 kami na kay ako nlng usa...(I am not saying na he change tungod nako, kay I really dont believe na mag usab ka bcoz of someone, kay ug ganahan jud ka mag usab...ma naa oh mawalay inspiration you can really change if you want too, nahurot nlng jud cgurong biga sa akong present bf mao ng na ingon ana.or gkapoy na cguro xa ug daghan2x uyab..namakalimot xa sa ngan sahay..@_@ Idk.. xa ra jud nakahibalo sa rason..ug na unsa xa..) his past doesnt bother me,coz its the person/personality man that matters. ^_^

though I agree with you again with regards to what he does is not really something to be proud of, pero bitaw..during you immature and irresponsible days will you really be able to think clearly?, will you able to comprehend if what you are doing is bad or is it bad? *winkz* when you are having all the advantage, gaining pleasure and having fun to the infinity and beyond? ^_^

and with your last question if does he thinks her gf would be proud of him, because of what he did....tsk...tsk..tsk...very good question....ey TS, have you asked your current girl bout this?

And if I were in your shoes TS, I'll just probably ask her and myself this;

- can she really accept me or not?

- or does she only want me to quench some thirst? need me for a few tumble in the bed? (I apologize for my choice of words) After all you've meet in a very unlikely set up then there you are just wanted to take what you have to the next level (it is not only males who can really do harsh stuff nowadays, there are also females who only wants/need the pleasure no strings attached)

- what do you want me to do to prove that I am really serious?

- and will you please stop talkin bout the past, we are at present now, I have let go and move on already, whats the used of bringing it up again? if you don't need the real deal then we better stop seein each other, what's the use, I am with you but you are thinkin of something else (nakz na reason tlga ang ending c gf pa ang nakasala *winkz* (sakto man sad))

bottom line; it is easier said than done... it is not without sacrifice pal...and you just need to really make her understand...


Wish you all the luck... ^_^

[aozora]

RainDrizzle07,
the only difference i can see with TS's girl-fling and you towards your current bf is that you really love your bf.

TS, if the person really loves you, she will find no reasons and overlook everything bad about you. like wat is RainDrizzle07 to her bf.

i guess we are already at bottom of the ocean now. i hope TS will not feel bad about us. hahahaha...
don't take it seriously btw.

RainDrizzle07 again,
your probable questions will result to probable answers too. so there's no point of asking that questions if the girl doesn't really dig the boy.

and i really don't like your idea of another tumbling in the bed even if the girl needs pleasure,
musamot ka wlay lami ang tanaw sa girl ni TS.

[miss tapya]

the story:

have this bf for 3 years. We have this long short distance relationship (layo man gud gihapon kay 1 hour man ang duration sa travel). Before sa bag o pa mi, daghan kog lapses and faults sa iyaha kesyo nag entertain pako og suitor or shall i say naa koy ka MU² nga crush daw nako. but nalampasan ra sad namo coz, gipili nako xa. to cut the story short.. present situation...

Kana man gud xa pag dli mi magkita for a week, mangaway dayon na xa or mag away mi. Last october, wala mi nag kita for almost a month, pero naa lang ko nabantayan nga dli na xa sapoton or mag init ang iyang ulo. mag text text mi okay nalang sa iyaha nga mag reply ko or dili. which is nabag ohan ko. Just then, have this ill feeling. nagkita mi bday nako 20+ and tengala lang ko kay ang smart iyang gi insert. gibaliwala lang nako.the next week, nagkita nasad mi pero ako na gyud gipangita ang iyang tm. Didto nako nabasahan nga murag naa kay gikalingawan didto nga girl. nag away mi ato, me promise xa d na daw xa mo text. several days pass by, naa xa new number. Paglantaw nasad nako na nakabasa nasad ko og mga msgs which is murag sweet sweet. Ako xa gi confront ingon xa wala ra lagi daw. Ang nakasave man gud sa iyahang fonbuk kay lahi nga name. D akong gi koykoy og kinsa, ang ending kay iya ra diay boardmate. So trying to be friendly gi teksan nako ang gurl. nag hellow rako. ang gi reply kinsa daw ko. I told her nga gf ni kuan. Ang gitubag..I don't give a damn. ..... ako sad gi replyan. Be nice nman..... ang gitubag,... i don't talk to stangers.... dangerous. So akong gi storyahan akong bf. Gi deny man ato nga gurl kay d daw xa ang ga gunit sa cp. and katong mga msgs. wrong sent ra daw. .... naa ba diay Wrong sent nga .. kadaghan? d ba wrong sent kausa raman na? .... so away bati mi sa akong bf because of that gurl. iyaha daw "close friend".

here comes another situation nasad. Ako nasad gipangayo ang sim, and nabasahan nako mga msgs nga.. "papa mahaw na.." "papa hapit nami manguli" .. d meulbo akong kaspa. ako xa giteksan og kinsa.. ang gitubag kay gibinuangan ko sa girl or what "anak daw xa sa gawas. lahi ang mama." a certain person daw iyang mama... meulbo gyud akogn kaspa. Ga away nasd mi. which is gikapoy nako og pangaway og am sure gikapoy nasad na tong bf nako... Then na connect nako nga katong katext nako nga gi deny nya nga xa.. xa ra gyud diay to because of that certain word "strangers"

No matter how much i tried to rationalize. (mahilig man gud ko mag rationalize) .. blurry pa gyud ang explaination ng nakuha nako. I tried to reach out sa iyahang FRIEND kono. giingnan nako nga makig friend ko and makig storya ko. ang reply sa iyahang boardmate.."dili daw xa kay giilad daw" nako xa. D ko kasabot unsa gusto mahitabo anang iyang boardmate.

Naa sa part nako nga motoo nga wala ra ang tanan, pero at the back of my mind there's something fishy gyud...

am i just overreacting or unsa bah.. coz i dont know what to believe anymore..

[RainDrizzle07]

which is more important your bf or yourself?

you choose...then you leave/forget the one that is not worth your time ^_^

Anyway what comes around goes around...

I also love to rationalize in order for me to be able to understand more...

pero sa imong situation...klaro kaayo that the girl really dig your bf...

and your bf just loves the attention since you are in sdr..and you are not always around...

[destinee]

behtaw2, sakto si raindrizzle..
nana jud nay gikalingawan lain imo yayabs..
maybe wa xa ma.satisfy sa inyo relationship so nangita nalang xag lain..

[miss tapya]

twally ako man xag giingnan nga wala naka ginahi nako, or gisumhan na ba kaha xa nako. Ang iya tubag kay wala daw kono. Iya lang gyud daw gi testingan og maibog pa daw xa og lain. ang iyahang giingon kay wala daw xa naibog. kay meingon daw ko sa iyaha nga .. KAnus a paka mang chix og mamenyo na.. iya ra daw gisunod but..nakalimtan nya ang iyang gibuhian nga storya nga dli na xa mopatol og watever form. Am not against nga maka close xa og lain girls but kabalo ko og which flock iyang giubanan. Ngano man sa una nga naa man xa suod suod nganong wala man ko pakialam. ang point nako Nabikil gyud ko sa iyahang boardmate.

D nman sad ko nya paadtoon sa iyang bhaus kay naa xa mga rason or maybe mahadlok xa nga sulongon nako ang girl which is malabo mahitabo coz d ko skandalusa nga tao manulong lang tungod sa laki.


@raindrizzle: what's hurting is that i think i love him to the point nga nakalimot ko og pagbilin sa akong self. mao nang sakitan ko.....

[RainDrizzle07]

RainDrizzle07 again,
your probable questions will result to probable answers too. so there's no point of asking that questions if the girl doesn't really dig the boy.

and i really don't like your idea of another tumbling in the bed even if the girl needs pleasure,
musamot ka wlay lami ang tanaw sa girl ni TS.

Agree with you aozora the thing lang is opaw here is the one who really digs the girl...
and as you have said she is not that into opaw..

pero nice na imo gbuhat paw na honest ka...at least you lay all your cards and that you are being true to her and most importantly sa imong self...

and sa akoa lang jud btaw..if someone can't accept you for who and what you are is not really worth it... ^_^ as I have said sa akoa lang nah... ^_^