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[commonsense]

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haha i just did tell him. but no reactions, just an ordinary look. i guess we're meant to stay this way. but no problem with that

just move on and accept the fact that he doesn't feel the same about you coz if he has feelings for you, dugay na unta siya nihimo ug move diba? don't be bitter, don't be mad at him for not liking you back. just stay positive and again accept the truth that things doesn't always go your way. i would also like to know ug unsa na nga level imong pag ka ganahan niya. be certain that you want to take the relationship to another level, make sure it isn't a passing crush kay sayang kaayo inyong friendship or inyong pinagsamahan. you can still keep him as a friend, just make sure that your life doesn't revolve around him. hang out with your other friends as much as possible. mas maka move on man gud ka ug dali ug dili ka makakita sa taw nga nakahurt sa imong feelings. there will just come a time nga mawala imong feelings para niya ang you can go back as friends na jud ..

[anjerika]

just move on and accept the fact that he doesn't feel the same about you coz if he has feelings for you, dugay na unta siya nihimo ug move diba? don't be bitter, don't be mad at him for not liking you back. just stay positive and again accept the truth that things doesn't always go your way. i would also like to know ug unsa na nga level imong pag ka ganahan niya. be certain that you want to take the relationship to another level, make sure it isn't a passing crush kay sayang kaayo inyong friendship or inyong pinagsamahan. you can still keep him as a friend, just make sure that your life doesn't revolve around him. hang out with your other friends as much as possible. mas maka move on man gud ka ug dali ug dili ka makakita sa taw nga nakahurt sa imong feelings. there will just come a time nga mawala imong feelings para niya ang you can go back as friends na jud ..

haha bongga jud na level sis. like 3 years na nako ni gitago. i dont understand why or how it happened but ambot oi, diba we treated each other as best friends all those years. natural kahibaw ko sa mga kaboang niya. i know how worse they were, and sa kadugay nakog tig tambag niya and being there by his side (even if sometimes iyang logic mismo ang way ayo and stupid na sya), i couldn't help it, i could not leave him alone. kung i base lang unta sa past nya, dapat unta discouraged na ko kay grabeeee na siya ka chickboy boang and all but i dont know how i got to overlook those imperfections kay ang tanging makita ra jud nako niya is that buotan siya for whatever reason and however bad he seemed.

[commonsense]

haha bongga jud na level sis. like 3 years na nako ni gitago. i dont understand why or how it happened but ambot oi, diba we treated each other as best friends all those years. natural kahibaw ko sa mga kaboang niya. i know how worse they were, and sa kadugay nakog tig tambag niya and being there by his side (even if sometimes iyang logic mismo ang way ayo and stupid na sya), i couldn't help it, i could not leave him alone. kung i base lang unta sa past nya, dapat unta discouraged na ko kay grabeeee na siya ka chickboy boang and all but i dont know how i got to overlook those imperfections kay ang tanging makita ra jud nako niya is that buotan siya for whatever reason and however bad he seemed.

the reason for that is that you choose to fall in love with him lang jud and i suppose you already prepared yourself on what's gonna happen. if imo na unta gibutang sa imo mind nga dili ka dapat ma fall niya kay ingon ana iyang batasan, or nangita lang pud unta ka ug way nga dili ma develop/ma nurture imo feelings para niya dili unta ka maglisod unta karon. you saw it coming pero wala jud nimo gi prevent ang unsay mahappen if mafall ka niya and siya doesn't feel the same way about your. just weigh things over and one thing that you also need to keep in mind that sometimes being in a friendship is worth more than being in a relationship.

[anjerika]

the reason for that is that you choose to fall in love with him lang jud and i suppose you already prepared yourself on what's gonna happen. if imo na unta gibutang sa imo mind nga dili ka dapat ma fall niya kay ingon ana iyang batasan, or nangita lang pud unta ka ug way nga dili ma develop/ma nurture imo feelings para niya dili unta ka maglisod unta karon. you saw it coming pero wala jud nimo gi prevent ang unsay mahappen if mafall ka niya and siya doesn't feel the same way about your. just weigh things over and one thing that you also need to keep in mind that sometimes being in a friendship is worth more than being in a relationship.

igo ko ani da. haha after all, it was all my fault. As the Law of Attraction would say, "it's not what you forged but what you've allowed". na pasagdan nako akong self na maganahan nya, unconsciously, as more than friends. i allowed myself ra too much, thinking na it won't affect me bad, and now,


naa na siyay new girlfriend.

[commonsense]

igo ko ani da. haha after all, it was all my fault. As the Law of Attraction would say, "it's not what you forged but what you've allowed". na pasagdan nako akong self na maganahan nya, unconsciously, as more than friends. i allowed myself ra too much, thinking na it won't affect me bad, and now,


naa na siyay new girlfriend.

so, it's time to move on.. palayo lang sa niya temporarily.. I know that's easier said than done, but it seems like you're giving him his cake and letting him eat it too and all that. kay ug magsige mo ug kuyog mas maglisod kag move on but if dili jud nimo makaya nga magpalayo niya gamay, let it be. we all bottom out on the thing that drives us crazy in our own time, and eventually you will get sick of being in love with someone who doesn't love you back, but in the meantime just try to accept it and be aware of your actions and how they affect you.

[anjerika]

yes sis, it does affect me soooooooo much i really have to do something about it. happy naman ko na happy sad siya, but deep inside you can find Mr. Pain. haha plastic. grabe, proud sya for her and me sad, coz infairness dugay na kaayo mi na friends, pero it's driving me crazy so i really have to do something about it.


it's like i had just put my one arm on the fire. talking to the girl will put one arm on fire, then pag mas nagkaila pami, another arm on the fire. but i still dont want to disappoint my bestfriend. waaaaa


mga silingan tabang help

[treize]

just let him be, if he thinks you're like a sister to him then get a new life but do not let go of the friendship that you have..

[anjerika]

just let him be, if he thinks you're like a sister to him then get a new life but do not let go of the friendship that you have..

mao lagi bro, mag sumbat dayon siya, coz since i'm like his sister, muana dayon sya na mamiya kuno ko. which isn't true naman, i was just trying to move away to move on but di sa ingon na mamiya ko. di ma let go ang friendship but di maiwasan na di mi ma bikil kay grabe di jud sya mu sugot na mu kalas ko. waaaaa


unsaon mani oi grrrr