Met a Dream Guy??

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

yes but only in my dreams..........

[maddox_pitt]

@jodoyz: wow...it's becoming a trend now.... finding people in social-networking sites... hehehe i think Lee Ryans (from BLUE...dont know if you still remember him) and Ben Adams (from a1) met their current and past gfs from Facebook haha
hmnn... maybe we should be online more often hehehe
lucky girl...good for her...wish them the best things in life hehehe if pul-an na siya, ingna siya ato na lang beh hehe jokes** ^^

[jodoyz]

@maddox_pitt: haha, yeah...that's how my friend reacted when she heard na she got him online... grabeh na jud ning social-networking thingys. it was even featured gani sa oprah. and a lot of people do agree na mas nindot daw if ma meet online. haha "maybe we should be online more often" --- maybe so.. hehe...

lagi.. now i believe in luck.. haha lol! maypud lageg mapul.an, hehe lol...

[tamse]

hahaha... seen a lot.. met a lot.. but wa jud nasayop ug landing nako intawon... huhuhu

[Blackjellybean27]

oh that's sad...we always hear of bestfriends falling in love and ending up happy together...im sorry you two have to separate.... maybe he's not the one after all...
sis, can i ask, how old were you when you two got married?and do you have a child together?
just asking....you may not answer if it's too personal...
wish you well.. hope you've gotten over him if you cant patch up things already..

Hello! sorry karun lang ko naka check diri. hehehe.
i was 19 when i got married, a month later we had our first child. hehehe. yup, got married sa church and all with the super huge tummy and the aching feet. awts!
then our second baby, who is 5 years younger than her sister was born during our "gubot" stage.
can't imagine jud the life i led with that guy, who was supposedly my best friend pa unta.
and oh we were able to patch things up already, not in the sense na i went back to him huh, but now we're good friends nalng. I've managed to forgive him in a way. but i cant deny that sometimes the hate is still there. grabe jud, first time nako naka feel ug hate.
I am already with someone else, truly happy and in a stable relationship for the first time since my ex and i separated and he is also happy with his own gf.
mao lang na, disappointing lang kaau k dream guy baya nako and best friend. after that sunod2x na ang dream guys turned nightmare guys.hehehe. my fault as well, coz any cute guy who comes my way k i will hook up with dayon so i can just prove to him, my ex husband, na "IT'S YOUR LOSS!".
Unya, ako pa jud e blame ang ex ko when my relatioships failed. hehehe. saying things like: "there i got hurt again, if not for you, blah blah blah!" or something like: "see! you a$$hole you married me pa, guys are not taking me seriously na k im married and separated!"
oh by the way, i just turned 28. nag buwag mi for good when i was 26 i think (but our "away" started when i was just 20 and took a turn for the worse when i was 24. so you can just imagine the efforts to fix our marriage from the first year pa lang.) our eldest is 8 yrs old and our youngest is 3.
nobela na mga sis. hehehe! pwd na pang maalaala mo kaya LOL. ay if you know the whole story, pwd na jud!!

[maddox_pitt]

@jodoyz; yeah.... they're changing the dating world haha fs..fb..multiply...wah*** hehehe swerte2x jud guru
@Blackjellybean27:wow...you were so young when you got married...it's been almost a decade! anyway, it's all water under the bridge, right at least you two are happy now despite all the odds you went through...suwat niya sa MMK sis para nakay 20K hehe ;p

[jodoyz]

@Blackjellybean27: u wer still really young palang dy sis noh wen u got married. and good thing u wer able to get out of it early pa, considering na u both broke up wen u wer still 26. 26 s still young. and now ur 28. but it was sayang sad noh, for the fact na it wud have been really good to hear na u got married to ur dreamguy and at the same time bestfriend...

sis? during those tough times and before u really decided to break it up, how did you think about it? cos u know, u both got married and got kids..
have u ever thot of staying, in the relationship, just for the kids? ---- well m just curious.

[Blackjellybean27]

@maddox_pitt - hmm one of these days kng d tapulan hehehe. tapos mg blow out jud ko kng ma feature. invite ko kau ni jodoyz. hehehe!
@jodoyz - pretty young huh. but to tell u the truth i was skeptical marrying him at first k i know i was young. but he insisted jud. toinks!
during those times, the first time i caught him na he was cheating on me and then after that tellng me to leave him alone k love na jud niya ang girl, super ngpaka martyr ko as in. bckground ko lng ha, i was brought up na brat kaau k only child. unya when i knew he was into someone else, i quit work and then nag full time housewife ko. i made laba all his clothes, i made luto for him, etc etc. as in those things that i ddint do before i really did. para ma feel lng niya love ko for him. nasuko na c papa k seeing me, preggy with our second child unya mag laba pako and all.
when i gve birth to our 2nd child, he left me. and i said ok fine, have it your way. pero d ko na kaya. i asked for him back. ayaw niya and i begged him. as in super kneel down and begging him. yucks oi. kaluod nako thinking bout that. so he stayed, and we constantly fought. naluoy nako sa mga anak ko, esp my eldest na cge na say na dont fight na mommy and daddy. thats when i realized, i cant let my kids see me like this and their daddy being an a$$hole to me. so i left him, gave him his freedom, breaking my heart and all...
so there, i stayed in the relationship because i loved him and i was thinking bout the kids, then realizing in the end, selfish man ko kaau if pugson jud nako. =(
it was soooooo hard to let go, promise. it took every ounce of my strength just to turn my back on him. so that's why naa ko diri cebu. so i dont see him. hehehe.

[jodoyz]

@Blackjellybean27: that martyr things does happen. althou, some are not that big. but sa imo murag dako2 jud na cyang istoryaa. i admire the courage sis. sakto man sad, u cannot force things if dili jud. u did nothing, so u cant blame urself -- ia najud toh..

luoy jud ang mga kids, but someday theyll understand. nice imo share sis da. good thing na ur not like other people na, if a relationship ends --- they think na wala na jud silbi ang world... cos mostly main.ana.

so sis, pwde follow up question? hehe... regarding sa imo statement na 'k love na jud niya ang girl'?? sila pa hantod run??...

[Blackjellybean27]

corek ka dira sis.
hahaha about that girl, kahibaw ka sa pagka buang ko and to make things go my own way, gi friend pa jud nako ang girl cz i wanted to "size" up the competition. and to tell you huh, that girl is so bagag nawong jud. kuyog pod sya with me and with my ex hubby around. imagine. ewww!
and during those times, i kept telling her. believe me, pagsawaan ka ng hubby ko. he's just gonna do this same thing that he's doing to me. obviously, sis, d jud sya maminaw coz when i went home to our hometown, super live in jud cla ng ex hubby ko. pero when i asked fr my ex to go home and he did naman, he found someone else there. plus cge pa sya text kad2 na girl i mean the old girl. ill give them names nalng para d ka confused. old girl = vine ang name, new girl = liz ang name. anyway, when my ex hubby was courting liz, he kept on textin vine pa. promising to go back to her and all. but guess what, i found out that vine was cheatng on my ex hubby as well k she got preggers with another guy. sos jackpot jud sis. hitting two birds with one stone. so i told my ex about her being pregnant, and super bad feeling jud ng ex ko that time k vine cheated on him.
i told him, see! i told you, but nooooo you wouldnt listen to me, na shes the kind of girl who is such a desperate wh0re! see, see, see!
to vine, i wish to say: see, told you. he's gonna do the same thing to you as he did to me.
wa pa jud mi nagkita ng girl diri cebu. bantay lng sya magkita kmi. hehehe. sos ill even post her name here sa istorya para kahibaw ang tanan na gi pangita ko sya. hahaha!
oh btw about the new girl, liz. may she burn in hell too. daku jud na sya sala nako. promise. pero im gonna say nalng ang gaba di musaba. corek bah?hehehe.