Merged: All About Letting Go/ Moving On

[drknyt]

Kani sa aqo a lisod oist kay we are very much close with my ex even if buwag na me we still go out with each other ( many times) and she keeps on texting and calling me,even if she has bf na..saun man ne oi..whats holding as back from going intimate again? Ma lo oy ko iya bf or what?

[beyee]

how to move on? cut ur ties wid ur ex, simple as that... not to be bitter though, stay friends but don't do stuffs together na coz ur only complicating things... that's why it's called separation

learn to do things on ur own now and not rely on ur ex just for the sake of u both had a past... be busy wid other things and better wid someone else

easier said than done... i too have moments when i go back to square one but NEVER did i text not col or even answer to my ex' SMS k d man jud ta maka move on if ing-ana... self-control is the key

[Faye_24]

mag uyab2x ug lain hehehe..

[anubiz]

let go... nlng po ..

[aozora]

If in-ani imu sitwasyon, ang imung special someone doesn't need you no more in his/her life. He/She had found another one in his/her life that can make her/him happy. Are you willing to let go of your special someone?

what's the use of staying if he/she <replace with red text above>?
there's no hope of saving when he/she does not need me anymore.

the answer is yes because she is not special (someone) anymore.

i think, this could have been prevented if you really know how to handle your relationship.
or this could have been known to you in the earlier part of the relationship if you can just read him/her.

[touch_me_not]

yup....im very much willing to let go....it would be more hurting to know that your loving and holding that somebody who could not offer his/ her love anymore....magkuyog tood mo pero ang iya gehuna huna ang lain...aint that hurting?...magplinastic ra xa nmu....for me, if love has been replaced with hatred it would be very easy to let go....

[tauren_chieftain]

ill try to save the relationship but if he really cant love me anymore then i will let him go...wats d use of keeping him if he's no longer happy with me...and f i keep him, our relationship will just be put to waste coz in the long run the relationship will still fail due to the absence of the other party's affection or love...

pagsure mo tanan....hehehe

[balot_sweet]

xempre let him go nalang , what's the use of holding on if that person is loving someone else nah, keeping that person is just like living in misery.....why not live in peace ^^

[inna-iks]

Of course. I will definitely let go. Even if it's hard. If it makes him happy. Why would I force myself diba sa iyaha? When I know that all he could ever think about is the other girl? Sakit2 lang ko sa akong self ana. Not unless mu-ingon xa nga willing xa mukalimot atong bago. Basta, nai time guro nga akong ipachoose if it's worth the fight but it's pretty damn obvious na nga padung na xa sa pikas girl. Better let go and start moving on.

If I keep him man gud kai kami ra duha ang mga sakit and kami duha dili happy. My nalang na I will let him go diba and he'll be happy and in time, I know I'll be happy too. ;]

But then again, easier said than done.

[babypaupau]

if di na sya nako, il let him go. but if there's a little hope left, i would try to save the relationship as much as i can. if di na gani madala aw let go. there's no point in holding on to someone who is no longer happy. bahala sakit... char. hehe