is it ok na naa pa moy communication to sum1 from ur past??

[aozora]

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see... i guess.. diri palang... naa nay maka misinterpret sa situation... hahahaa.. waaaa... feel jud nako bad au ni na idea... haizz...

yep yep yep... believe in your guts gurl!
let me ask you, ok ra pud nimo nga magcommunicate imong bf sa iyang mga exs?

[glass_tsinelas]

just be careful lang .. not all people will have the same level of understanding as you have of the situation ..

if there's really a need to communicate, then do so, just make sure there's nothing more to it .. and if wala, you don't have to cut your ties, pero just avoid na lang any form of contact ..

para asa pa mn nah ba, holding on to an easy and convenient booty call? safety net, para naa ka fallback when things go wrong?

just move on with your lives and just be happy that there's no bitterness between you two .. there's a reason you broke up, nya karon you'd still act chummy chummy ..

[hush_hush]

yep yep yep... believe in your guts gurl!
let me ask you, ok ra pud nimo nga magcommunicate imong bf sa iyang mga exs?

hahaha.. actually nakoi kaila na from his past,,, na friends cla kay common friends man pud so di jud na malikayan,,, kabaw naman guro xa sa iya limitations...

[Blackjellybean27]

for friendship sake? doing naughty?
can you read that again gurl?! i think your teaching her to commit the unforgivable sin - Adultery.
even if it is ok with the bf, it is still wrong to do such things! wahahaha...
i think all bfs in the right mind are all insecure about it and don't like your idea.

uhmmm can you read my whole post again boy?
did i tell her to do that?
adultery? between a girlfriend and another guy?
if im not mistaken adultery refers to: when a MARRIED woman has sexual intercourse with a man other than her husband, whether married or not, both are guilty of adultery
I believe TS here is not married. ingon gani uyab nya.
you must have meant cheating na word?
besides, i said let the boyfriend know. that is not cheating exactly. and i did say as long as she is not guilty of doing something naughty with her ex.
and i did say if the boyfriend doesnt like it, then dont do it anymore.
please try to understand the context before you comment.

[luke0917]

i am also communicating with my ex bf right now. i guess its ok so long as he has no GF yet or if he has a GF already, the GF should understand it nlng, dli ma insecure pud..

[aozora]

uhmmm can you read my whole post again boy?
did i tell her to do that?
adultery? between a girlfriend and another guy?
if im not mistaken adultery refers to: when a MARRIED woman has sexual intercourse with a man other than her husband, whether married or not, both are guilty of adultery
I believe TS here is not married. ingon gani uyab nya.
you must have meant cheating na word?
besides, i said let the boyfriend know. that is not cheating exactly. and i did say as long as she is not guilty of doing something naughty with her ex.
and i did say if the boyfriend doesnt like it, then dont do it anymore.
please try to understand the context before you comment.

i misinterpreted that line back there... my apologies.
but gurl you have to change your definition of adultery now.

here is what wikipedia defines it:
Adultery is referred to as extramarital ***, philandery, or infidelity, but does not include fornication.

and

Infidelity is a violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of an intimate relationship, which constitutes a significant breach of faith or a betrayal of core shared values with which the integrity of the relationship is defined. In common use, it describes an act of unfaithfulness to one’s husband, wife, or lover, whether sexual or non-sexual in nature.


can you see where is the context now?

let's say ok ra sa bf mag communicate. but still it depends on the motives sa gf.
and the way i see it based sa post ni TS, i think she wants a safety net as what glass_tsinelas pointed out.

not unless TS will tell us as to what degree the communication she wants with her ex, we can't really say it is ok.

is it 1 sms per day? huh, TS?

[dropdeadgorgeous]

for me, it's alright to still have communication with my exes as long as i know the boundaries... basta kahibaw lang sa limits, wa ju nay problema..

[neurain]

ok raman cguro na as long as wa moi ngil-ad nga gibuhat duha...usa pa murag lain pud kaau kung for instance magkita mo, motagad cya nimu nya ikaw pa echus echus pud ka makaingon cya nga nag sour gripping ka

[hush_hush]

ei.. chill lang guys... ayaw nalang mu ug lalis... ayaw nalang ni ninyo i big deal... murag wrong ni pag post nako dah.. no intention na nay mag lalis... anyways... sakto man pud mu tanan... naa jud muy mga point... i respect it.. honestly no guilt feelings man pud... i luv my bf xoo much.. i cant afford to hurt him with this kind of situation... past is past naman jud pud.. dd2 nato kutob... but friendship is impt man sad dba with my ex.. dili man sad bati amu ending or wat,,, basta kbw lang jud sa limitations... and i knw asa ko... be open minded lang gud ta,,, big boys and girls naman kaha ta tanan diri.. or more than that,,, shall i say.. mature pipol najud d.i.. ehehehe

thanx sa comments and advices... mwahmwah...

[Inevitable Pain]

communication is ok dude

just do it appropriately and everything will be fine