We already broke up 2 weeks ago because i found out he have gotten the girl pregnant. He asked my forgiveness and told me that no matter what will happen he still loves me...
I don't know how to describe or put into words how I feel at the moment. But you ever feel that no matter how many close friends you have or no matter how many past significant others or family members that have told you that they love you, you can't help but feel alone in the world? That's how I have felt the past few weeks since we broke up. I can not shake this feeling and it bugs the hell out of me.
i know its my fault coz i let myself trapped into this feelings of anger, bitterness and sometimes i even think about vengeance. I even forget how to practice embracing hope, forgiveness and joy. And i dont even know myself anymore. I hate this feelings but i cant help it. I already decided to let go resentments and thoughts of revenge as they betrayed me. I really want to untie myself from thoughts and feelings that bind me to the offense they committed against me. I want to focus to something positive so i can lessen the grip inside me. but its extremely difficult to overcome the pain they caused. I regret everything because of losing a valued relationship. maybe its because ive been too good and faithful to be treated this way. I knw God is always there and sees everything happened and i know someday, somehow i can surely overcome this pain. I am aware on the facts of the situation, how I've reacted, and how this betrayal affected my life, my health and my well-being. But I promised to myself and to all of you that I gonna throw all those wasted times holding memories that makes me blot out the joy of other life experiences and preventing me to appreciate all the good things and blissful life occurrences.
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11-21-2009, 05:14 PM #91Junior Member
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11-21-2009, 05:28 PM #92C.I.A.
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how sad, ... sis just put it this way maybe you're not really meant to be together.....try to move on don't waste your life with that rotten someone.....life is wonderful ^^ try to do things that can make you happy, meet and be with wonderful people and I'm sure you can get over on this soon.....just be strong and stay positive ^^
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11-21-2009, 10:56 PM #93
ui si balot ha..speaking from experience ni friend? heehhehe!
@ TS, then the whole thing is a crap! you could move on if you're all decided to really get over him....
trust is gone..what else will it do good 4 both of u? surely u wouldn't want to live a life with someone who cheats on you.... break up is merely a state of mind..... at times,yes it is.....
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11-22-2009, 11:00 AM #94C.I.A.
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Originally Posted by acecrystal
weee tsk tsk....how about u friend haha >>>speaking from experience pud ni noh
whehehe!
haha nag abot jud ta dri dah haha first time whehe...cheers!
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12-06-2009, 05:52 PM #95Junior Member
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ammmm i think we are on the same boat. pero lisud man gud, kay if love nimo siya dili man pud sayon mo let go. unless kaya nimo. if ever mag ingana pa siya go ahead and decide. kay being a nagger is not an excuse for him to do something like that.
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12-06-2009, 09:30 PM #96Junior Member
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the only way to move on is to find another one
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12-06-2009, 09:49 PM #97Junior Member
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How to survive, forget, recover and get over cheating and betrayal in a relationship?
How?.
Sincere, honest prayer to God. By yourself, you can't do it. With His help, you can.
If you have a personal relationship with God, you'll know He is able to help you not only survive, but get over it. Human as we are,- either we really can't or impossible at times, but with God, super kaya.
Leave the possible to us, and Let God do the impossible.
To those who can see, let them read
To those who can hear, let them listen.
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12-06-2009, 10:22 PM #98
nyahahaha! secret friend... speaking from someone else's experience ni wui.... ikw ha..you're learning.... Originally Posted by balot_sweet
weee tsk tsk....how about u friend haha >>>speaking from experience pud ni noh whehehe!
haha nag abot jud ta dri dah haha first time whehe...cheers!
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02-21-2010, 03:54 AM #99Junior Member
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i lost him forever...
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02-21-2010, 04:30 AM #100Elite Member
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set him free .....move on ...life must go on . . . . u have to enjoy life...coz life is to short .....makaya gani sa uban ikaw pa kaha ? .....make sure the next time u fall inlove u have to correct the wrng things that u have done sa imu past ....selos ug nagger mao gyud na hate sa mga lalaki ......GOD BLESS
mu happen pud na sa lalaki oi . . na iya gurl ni duwa lain team . . sa ma sakpan lang .....Last edited by roy_nitro; 02-21-2010 at 04:34 AM.
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