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[RainDrizzle07]

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BECAUSE.. nag selos ko kay mag cge ghpon cya txt iya Ex-boyfriend and ala ko salig sa guy.. mahadlok ko nga naa spark ma kita and mag balik cla.. pro mo ingn jd cya tanan nahitabo even though khbw cya masuko ko.. dat s GUDNEWS about it..

Nag selos ka kay binuhatan man nmo. Subconsciously you are thinking na nabuhat man gani na nmo sa imong ex how much more ang ex pud sa u gf..dba?

now my question for you is:
1.should i continue and make bawi sa tanan nko na buhat.. coz i realy LOVE her nahh..
2.or should i STOP making up to her and set her FREE?

this questions came to my mind now kay naglibog njd ko..

YOUR help would be a great persuation for my next MOVE...

TNX!!

T.T super sad dis tym!!

- You better ask yourself what you really need. kay bacg tungod nag libog ka (bisaya version) mao ng ganahan ka mag hinulsol sa imong sala,ug mkigbalik & make up for what you did.. pero baka mamaya nyan.. mag libog (tagalog version) ka na nmn.. makkpag relasyon ka nmn for a day.

Honestly, I don't want to rant coz I really see na you are asking for options, still pare nasa sayo yan. Kung mahal mo d cge umayos ka.. pero kung naglibog at nalilibog ka pa.. aw... ausin mo muna sarili mo.. pra nd nmn madamay ung "GF MO, na SINABI MONG MAHAL MO."

tao lang tayong nagkakamali totoo un..pero nasa sau na yan kung aausin mo ang pagkakamali mo..
we are humans we have weakness, pero its up to us if we will succumb to temptation..

God Luck & God Bless..
(take note I put God, instead of Good)

[touch_me_not]

libog jud ka bro..just set her free...matakdan unay xa sa imo ka libog....napuros na mo libog...ikaw pai ni cheat, ikaw pai nakigbuwag....u dnt deserve to be given a second chance...in the first place it seems as if you were just gamin...sayon ra kaayo nmu ang pagcheat....f magbalik man gani mo...the tendency is mobaws ra ang girl nmu....magbinalsanay ra mo....speaking from experience bro...ur relationship wont be healthy anymore...the girl deserves to find someone better...she doesnt deserve u bro...sorry if i may sound so mean.....butwhat you did is unforgivable....but hey ds is just my opinion..just dont get me wrong....

[rickflag]

bro ang ako lang i ka advice nimo in a relationship Trust is very important. it's one of the key ingredient for a relationship to last. it is also very "expensive" since you just can't ask it from anyone, you have to earn it so if you earned it take care of it like you take of your life kay lisud na mabalik ang broken Trust. dili na gyud parehas sa una bro.

[babypaupau]

To the person above,

it seems its ok for you to cheat, at the same time your partner to cheat on you. Well kanya kanya raman na.. if it works on u, it works for you. you can cheat in your relationship as much as your hubby or bf can cheat with you sad..

But for the rest of us here, there are no black and white in cheating. Especially if it involves human emotion.. sakit jud na. If you're a robot not to feel the pain, then feel free to cheat and be cheated then.

For me and for some here who feels the pain of being cheated. Don't tell us that cheating is inevitable in a relationship.. cause its NOT.

if you read my first post, i said im not condoning it. you must have missed it. cheating is wrong any way you put it.no question about that.

what im saying is that it is inevitable, meaning invariably occurring. this is the real world we're talking about. it happens to real people regardless the amount of love and commitment they invest in their relationships. it sucks to be cheated on and to cheat on someone you love. you cant say that in relationships there's only black and white. whether you like it or not, there will always be grey areas. its not like baseball where you can only get three strikes and then you're out. life's not like that. people make mistakes. cheating is a mistake... if you've been cheated by your partner before, did you look into your relationship and asked why? did it ever occur to you that maybe you were not as good as you think you are? or that maybe, naa ka pagkukulang sa inyong relationship? or that maybe, just maybe, you are not the person your partner is looking for?

in my opinion, people don't cheat just for the sake of cheating. THERE'S ALWAYS A REASON BEHIND IT. it can be intentional but it can also be unintentional. it is always a symptom of something...a result. it is a manifestation that there is an underlying problem in your relationship. now unless you are matured enough and ready to take on your "relationship issues", you will end up whining about how painful it is to be cheated on. of course it hurts big time! but sometimes we are so engrossed with the pain that we forget to look at ourself and our misgivings.

i didn't say "go ahead and cheat". instead, i said choose. choose what he thinks is best. if he loves his girlfriend enough to fix their relationship problem, then he should be sorry and then move on. dwelling on the past does more damage than good. BUT if he feels that they can't fix their "issues", THE REAL REASONS BEHIND THE UNFAITHFULNESS, then might as well quit. let go of the girl.

relationships are like that. they are never perfect. both of you will be making mistakes whether you like it or not. both of you will be hurting each other along the way. but it's ok... loving is pain in itself. make mistakes, make ammends and strive not to commit the same mistakes again.also you forgive, and you forget. that's just how it is.that is how you, your partner, and your relationship will grow.

[MrsJack]

...do not do unto others what you do not want others do unto you...

[Ryan747]

Your next move would be to ask yourself if you really love her now and would never cheat on her again. I bet you would easily answer that question but hard for you to do.

[cromagnon]

ok rana bro kun san ka masaya , buhata lng.

[namaligya]

i agree to all of you.. but i think its time nga ako mag pa ubos.. kng mo think cya ug revenge ana. aw dat thing. ako njd mag pa ubos.. i hav to take the consequence.. wa koy mahimo kng mao na iyang plano.. wat im going to do now.. GAIN her trust agen.. huhuhuh..

[0+1-1+1-0-1+1]

ok raman ceguro if ikaw nag cheat then imo partnet nag cheat sad nimo..

bad if usa ra dapat both are cheaters ! ..

but better off nalang ang relationship and try to think twice for the second time around.

[PipayNove]

hi.

take dos advices postd n w/c ur heart wants 2 follow. but tink it over again.


gain her trust again?honstly 8s hard.. u may be able to fix 8 yet dnt xpct 8 wud be d same trust ur partnr can offer.

well,good luck

GAIN her trust agen.. huhuhuh..

f u truly love her and u dnt wanna let go of her.. ,den u knw whom 2 ask help with


God bless