Nyaks! how can I be a victim when I need to be victimized ahehe? Like a drug addict as a victim?
But you do had a point, sometimes I encounter christian teaching that 'we should give because the Lord had been gracious with us'- translated as something you drop into the 'box' or the envelope..hehehe otherwise the good Lord will take away your abundance. This bomb the hell out of me...I looked around I see people half believing, their wallets creaking as they opened it attest to this. Nevertheless they give not necessarily because of the threat but they see the need of the ministry to do its tasks. Even if God's love and grace are freely given, spreading these message is not nowadays.
Take a survey why people give donation or gifts to the church or some christian ministries, Spiritual blackmail is the lest of them.