What's considered as cheating?

[Fern]

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hahahahhhaha mag katawa lang ko aning gender wars.... they say men are from mars and women are from venus and bullsyets like that.

these psychologist femenist authors are just making the gender wars worse by selling books like that.

sige reklamo ang babae... utro sad diay.

[Blackjellybean27]

why do you need to text someone else?
Or talk to someone else on the phone?
-- ever heard of male friends? Or female friends if guy ka? I'm sure naa jud dira na ka barkada mo na mu text nimo right? Or office mates asking for this and that, purely friendly, purely business... Also i should specify na when i text, i dont text guys all the time.. Ingon gani ko, if ever naa guy na mu text nako (which means it's not that often naa ko ka text na guy, even if ka berks kmi...)

or go out on date with someone else?
-- never did this to my bf

there is something going on with you.
-sure ka? Uhmmm judgemental kaau ka....

Are you shopping for another man?
-- of course not!!

Because no matter how honest you are,
men hates it when women talk to other men
when they have no business with each other.
-- my boyfriend is not as narrowminded as you are.. Besides like i said when guys text or call, it's usually naa impt discussion, like work related or something to do with our circle of friends...

Men are men.
They know how men are with women.
So don't fool yourself thinking that its all peachy
when your man knows you are talking to other men.
- again, my boyfriend knows what i talk about to other guys on the phone... Sobra naman masuko sya if it's work related or kaya sa mga friends ko... He talks to his girl officemates gani, his friends na girls... We're not that narrowminded noh, na we're just gonna get mad just because the other person is talking to the opposite ***... Whooops! Wla nalng diay life ana?

It does not work that way.

How would you feel if he is on the phone talking to other girls?
- i said, ok lang.. If friends cla and work related...

Or if he's going out with other girl on dinner
which has nothing to do with work or business.
- again, i dont go out on dates with other guys.. Emphasize! If he does, it's his conscience... As far as i know he doesnt.

I guess its okay with you as long as he ask your permission.
But that is just asking for trouble.

fyi, i'm asking for what's considered cheating with you people... Refer to title of thread.. Those questions i asked at the beginning are just something to start the topic with, not me or my partner specifically doing those things.. I hope i made that clear!! Thanks!

[Blackjellybean27]

hahahahhhaha mag katawa lang ko aning gender wars.... they say men are from mars and women are from venus and bullsyets like that.

these psychologist femenist authors are just making the gender wars worse by selling books like that.

sige reklamo ang babae... utro sad diay.

Bro, i wonder why you thought this was a gender war...
Not intended for a fight between men and women, this thread i mean..
just simply asking what's considered as cheating for you... not specifically as a woman or as a man...
clearing things up lang people!

and oh, by the way the book men are from mars and women are from venus written by john gray... i don't think it's feminist at all.. it's just giving the difference between men and women... not necessarily uplifting the woman's status but then again this is off topic na

[Fern]

Bro, i wonder why you thought this was a gender war...
Not intended for a fight between men and women, this thread i mean..

a thread like this from a woman like yourself .... oh come on .... "threadStarter"

[RainDrizzle07]

thank you pd ani na post kay mao raba ni permi namo awayan sa ako uyab... atots... kana para nako wala rajud koy gi buhat ba... and the thing is i don't see something as an issue mao pd dili nako ma ingon sa ako uyab... then mao na iya panan.aw kay nag cheat ko kay wala man ko ni ingon pero friendly lang man pd like nag chat lang ko ug someone... bisan casual lang jd... thanks ani na post.

You're welcome, and thanks too for the peeps who posted...
In every relationship communication is the best defense against all odds..
'cause every person is different... like for example your gf considers that cheating, you have to let her know as well.. wla raba na.. or if she's not really comfortable with the idea then compromise dba? if d jud madala, since naa naman ka uyab, then don't chat nlang... just to assure her. pero kng cge pa jud ug accuse nimo about that even though you're not even doing anything, maybe you should think twice bout your girlfriend.. hehehe.. joke lang..
but seriously, ana lang.. for me communication is the thing lang that will help any relationship go on its smooth way...

Agree jud ko aneh ai.. hehehe..
the story is like this, friend nami karon sa ako 1st former (the reason we broke up is bec.he cheated on me) and since we are friends na karon (after 3 years)

he always text or leave msgs at ym & FB na ganahan xa magkita mi & all..

I always ask him does your gf know that we are friends and communicating already? (kay ako man xa gi ingnan na mkgkita ko nya n person again, if mkbaw na iyang gf na friends na mi coz I dont want them two fighting over nothing, dba?) his reply, No.

I told him na you better let your gf know in that way she knows na you are not hiding anything from her, kay ako bf btaw he knows nman gani na we are friends na, wer txtn, frend ta sa FS & sometimes makabasa gani xa sa imo msg when I askd him to log in my FB acct.

his answer kay " dah kapoy na kaayo cge ug explain bsag wla kay dapat i xplain nya mao na sad nay awayan"

which is naka hunahuna2x ko naa sad btaw xa point.
pero ngano kayha ingon anah? I mean, when our partner is very sincere & honest murag sahay dli pa ta motou.
Or was it our pagka duduso nature lang ang hinungdan?
or maybe factor sad cguro na naa mi past, mao ingon ana lang?

what do you think guys? ^_^

[treize]

you will know when you are cheating when you feel guilt and still try to ignore it just to get self satisfaction

[Blackjellybean27]

a thread like this from a woman like yourself .... oh come on .... "threadStarter"

I was checking out your other posts in other topics and you berated another woman... oh come on, fern... i wasn't intending this to be a gender war... don't assume it is... nindot man ka mga thoughts unta..
if naa ka something against us women, then by all means be free to feel resentment or whatever.. just don't assume lang all women are like that.. okay..

[Blackjellybean27]

Agree jud ko aneh ai.. hehehe..
the story is like this, friend nami karon sa ako 1st former (the reason we broke up is bec.he cheated on me) and since we are friends na karon (after 3 years)

he always text or leave msgs at ym & FB na ganahan xa magkita mi & all..

I always ask him does your gf know that we are friends and communicating already? (kay ako man xa gi ingnan na mkgkita ko nya n person again, if mkbaw na iyang gf na friends na mi coz I dont want them two fighting over nothing, dba?) his reply, No.

I told him na you better let your gf know in that way she knows na you are not hiding anything from her, kay ako bf btaw he knows nman gani na we are friends na, wer txtn, frend ta sa FS & sometimes makabasa gani xa sa imo msg when I askd him to log in my FB acct.

his answer kay " dah kapoy na kaayo cge ug explain bsag wla kay dapat i xplain nya mao na sad nay awayan"

which is naka hunahuna2x ko naa sad btaw xa point.
pero ngano kayha ingon anah? I mean, when our partner is very sincere & honest murag sahay dli pa ta motou.
Or was it our pagka duduso nature lang ang hinungdan?
or maybe factor sad cguro na naa mi past, mao ingon ana lang?

what do you think guys? ^_^

Naa pod sya point.. I think basin ang girlfriend nya d makasabot ug friendship na tawag. mao na mag lisod sya explain. hehehe. Lisod man gud e-explain this kind of set up with a present partner if mejo close minded ang tao..

[Fern]

@RainDrizzle07.... regarding your former x friend

your x simply just doesnt want to think over his politics... becuase he is blinded by the fact that he still wants you physically or naa pa cya hope nga magkabalik mu


try this out..... ask him ---> " wanna have s2x" { only if nagka eyut gyud mu sa una }

lisod i simulate kung unsa iyang reaction {lolz}

[Meebo]

it is only considered cheating.. if.. you get caught.. nyahahahahaha..