What's considered as cheating?

[roybrian69]

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DOUBT . . . .nya kanang maka feel ug biga sa lain- dili makita pero mentally nag cheat...lol

[Blackjellybean27]

My thoughts on cheating are, as long as you hide ANYTHING from your boyfriend or girlfriend, that is considered cheating. That's why ako, bahala na masuko ang bf ko. if ever naa guy na mu text nako I will tell him jud, 'cause I know I'm not guilty about that. I text beside him, I take my calls when he is around and not take it somewhere else 'cause I don't want him to feel na there is someone else.

[Blackjellybean27]

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1.common sense nalang....


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2.if what you think you do is not cheating (even if its already cheating in the eyes of the other person) then it is not cheating,coz what is important man here is your view on things not there (unless you are too dependent to what others say, well its another story)

Example: ug sa imong patan aw ang pakig jerjer sa uban samtang naa kay pares is not cheating, then it is not cheating sa imoha, pero sa uban it is.

3. Going out on friendly dates or anything is okey as long as you are not thinking other things (if you know what I mean)

Mao lang na akong view..

The very reason wlay ni answer coz common sense ra jud intawn ang paganahon aning situationa. @_@

Thank you for your MHO, but the reason I posted this is I want to know if I have the same thoughts on cheating as with you guys.. I know what you mean by common sense na lang, but then again I know what i consider as cheating.. I just needed some other thoughts. Peace!

[lola_basyang]

thank you pd ani na post kay mao raba ni permi namo awayan sa ako uyab... atots... kana para nako wala rajud koy gi buhat ba... and the thing is i don't see something as an issue mao pd dili nako ma ingon sa ako uyab... then mao na iya panan.aw kay nag cheat ko kay wala man ko ni ingon pero friendly lang man pd like nag chat lang ko ug someone... bisan casual lang jd... thanks ani na post.

[Blackjellybean27]

thank you pd ani na post kay mao raba ni permi namo awayan sa ako uyab... atots... kana para nako wala rajud koy gi buhat ba... and the thing is i don't see something as an issue mao pd dili nako ma ingon sa ako uyab... then mao na iya panan.aw kay nag cheat ko kay wala man ko ni ingon pero friendly lang man pd like nag chat lang ko ug someone... bisan casual lang jd... thanks ani na post.

You're welcome, and thanks too for the peeps who posted...
In every relationship communication is the best defense against all odds..
'cause every person is different... like for example your gf considers that cheating, you have to let her know as well.. wla raba na.. or if she's not really comfortable with the idea then compromise dba? if d jud madala, since naa naman ka uyab, then don't chat nlang... just to assure her. pero kng cge pa jud ug accuse nimo about that even though you're not even doing anything, maybe you should think twice bout your girlfriend.. hehehe.. joke lang..
but seriously, ana lang.. for me communication is the thing lang that will help any relationship go on its smooth way...

[katy_aryan]

cheating...simple ra man na para naku...kung naa ka gibuhat na bati ug gituyo jud ug gitago...dili mn na cheating kung dili intentional...aksidente ra...like in my case...minyo diay sya unya iya gitago...ug gituyo jud na itago kay ako pa may nakasakop =) hehehe charged to experience...

[Fern]

@black jelly ..... let me ask you

why do we use the word "cheat" ?

the meaning itself answers your question.... gusto man gud nimu i specific ang act of cheating

[jom22488]

haha saktu.. bitaw kung ang binuhatan nga gitago against sa partner.. grabeha pd anang s** kae dili cheating oi.. grabeg malice ana.. hahaha

[HerStory]

i do agree with hiding something and doing things to offend your partner... that's cheating. if you are going out with others without your partner knowing it then i think that's cheating too. i think.

and i won't want my partner going out with other girls without me knowing it. that's why i also tell my partner if am seeing friends he already meet and have not meet yet. just to let him know where am i and who am with. lisud na if naa makakita na uban pips. we don't know what they are going to think. lisud muabot sa partner na you are somewhere with someone. in the eyes of other people, that's bad man. even if clear imo conscience.

[foxyloxy]

Hello guys and gals

Just wanna know your opinion on what you would consider as cheating na....

Do you think texting a girl/guy other than your gf/bf is cheating? - it would depend on the content of what you guys are texting.. are you getting emotionally involved/attracted to the other person? casual conversation isnt... flirting is goin down the road of cheating if u guys allow it to develop

Does it have to involve s3x to be considered cheating? - nope.. kissing, emotional involvement, dating..cheating

Does going out with another girl/guy, like dinner or lunch or just being with them (no *** involved) considered cheating na? - dpends... if its just the 2 of you and neither of you is gay and you aren't telling your significant others, it probably is. if you ask permission from the guy/girl for you to go out with a friend, okay lang cgro. just as long as your partner knows and there is no monkey business when ur goin out with another guy/girl (purely platonic lang)

Post your opinions. I wanna know if we have the same thoughts on the subject of cheating.

likay nlng sa temptation... sometimes when ur relationship isn't going so well, you become vulnerable to doing things with other ppl that might end up to be cheating.