
Originally Posted by
jh1_14
well if in ana mn dae then i guess its better na the both of you will talk about it in a way na it wont turn out as an arguement. be open for anything there is for him to say. change is always naa what there is for us to do about change is to be with it, be dynamic enough to adapt it. let say naa xa circle then why not try to ask him nicely na why not you be also a friend to that circle not pra mk followup ka niya or what coz that would be out of insecurity on ur part and it would just make the guy uneasy cguro, guys dont like the feeling that na permi sila dudahan. dira baya na xla mo snap or break kai the pressure builds up on them if mag cge nag ba. but anyways. suggest lng ko why not try na ur cirlce be friends with your cirlce. like say: kinsai single sa inyo circle coz in my cirlce there are singles pd. make a connection. make a friendly environment for the good of both party.

i told him already about my fears. he told me not to think about it. that nothing would change. wed still see each other. everyday if i want it, after office hours. but i am still thinking things would really change after me leaving this company. this is now my last month.
then he told me we could see each other on fridays. then he said on weekends. that's what am afraid of. that we would only see each other once a week or maybe once a month na lang. i dont want that.
nowadays we don't see each other on weekends. of course that owkie with me cause i still see him on weekdays. at the office. i know it's not right for me to take his weekends cause that's the only time for him to be with his family. hahai....