Unsa inyu buhaton kog di mo magkasinabot sa u gf/bf?

[anjo9778]

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gud mowning!

[aKoToNoh]

4 years relationship? murag sakit na kau ni sa girl if makigbreak xa sa boy labi na if naay mga kagahapon ba...sakit jud..hehehe...strong lang sis, ilingaw2x ang imo lyf wid ur fren ayaw patunto ikaw ray masakitan....part gihapon na sa imo lyf to challenge ba..cheer up sis

[Maikeru]

Answer nako sa Thread title, well, if dli mi magkaSinabot, I will try my best para makaSabot q niya. heheh.

Sa imo situation. I wont say buwagan nimo. Ky I only know a tini-wini part sa imo story.
First off, if lahi iya interpretation, double check daw kung giUnsa pud nimo pagpaabot sa imo message. Sometimes, we tell something pud nga lau ra kaau sa atong pasabot. And most of the times, we don't realize that we are doing it.
Second, kana mga times nga maMisinterpret niya imo point, diin mana xa gikan ana? Was he from work? Was he totally ok pag2k ninyo? Stress can be a factor why pirmi mo naa misunderstanding. Walay maaung laki kung naStressed na. Especially Soft Dev man kaha mo bf, all day ang utok ra ang galihok ana, you can't imagine the stress at the end of the day.
Third, have you tried nga moSabot nya? No need to be explained
Fourth, moLambing2x lang japon ka niya? This can play a role sa away, ky if cold na imo tinagdan niya dn possible jud na prmi mo dli magkaSinabot.

My advice, is talk it over with you're bf. I know I've been telling this to almost all relationship problems, but the truth is, some problems can only be solve by a very simple and honest conversation. In which, mostly, tends to ignore it. Communication is really vital in relationships.

[reymags]

mkg istorya para mgkasinabot...

[gcc4426]

id cool myself down bfore mi magstorya blik. kpoy kayo kung init prehas ang ulo, way daog.

[a_girl]

@maikeru-tnx kaau ha!wa sd ko khbw na motoyuk diay ya utok ddto work..hehe...mybe mohilom nlg ko and try to work it out...mu sabot nlg ko niya bsan lahi xa og world..hehe

[vaneeh21]

same situation here, dapat naa usa sa inyo dapat, mag paubos lang jud ug maayo, and hopefully ang usa maka realize nga luoy kaayo ang usa nga sge paubos, and hopefully machange

[phatphat]

eat ice cream ko...it works naman to me....after ana wala na mag init ako ulo

[Maikeru]

@maikeru-tnx kaau ha!wa sd ko khbw na motoyuk diay ya utok ddto work..hehe...mybe mohilom nlg ko and try to work it out...mu sabot nlg ko niya bsan lahi xa og world..hehe

It's kinda like that. hehe. I, myself is a software dev engr, and every end of shift (basta naa daghan tasks) stressed kaau q ana. Nahan najud kaau ko mohigda daun right after sa work. Sometimes, gai ky makaFeel q saq gf nga mura mataha na nagkakita namo. But luckily, moSabot man xa. In return, I tried to treat her right bisag ana na kaStressed. So maybe ds is what you guys need. But first pahibaw-a xa unsa mo na feel, unsa imo na naThink, para kibaw mo duha unsa angay ninyo buhaton. I tell you, it works and it really do make a difference

[a_girl]

Actually in 4 years so many countless things happened that only me can explain. No im perfectly normal. In fact im just being too good, too generous, too understanding to the point of easily being .... u know d word. Yes Maekeru, 'Kambing' este lambing is really the word. That is what we really need at d end of every stressfull day. Maybe there is so much i missed in the past 4 years that I really deserve, for all the things iv done. Maybe someone just don't realize the small things that i really value most. The small things that really keep up the relationship. God knows I tried my best to be humble, to understand, to be generous. And if there is really something that I should change Im very much willing to do it coz being proud cannot make us a better person.

Hope we both realize this.