Unsay best solution if init au ang away nnyo?give time 1st or settle immediately???

[babychique]

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ive learnd this frm grown ups..
'if ang isa kayo, dapat ang isa dw tubig'
kng init au ang isa, d nlng atbangan..kai anha mn mu daku ang away..

hmm, well.. i mst agree na dapat give time sa..like pa cool down sa dota pah..hehe
WE CANT MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION IF WE'RE MAD
chill lng sa mu..huna2xa mau..then pila ka hours,, lambinga daun..ahaha
rmmber, na f knsa mu ingon 'sori' una doesn't mean xa ang saup,
its jst dat xa tngli nka huna2 mau/or really wana make things work out..
bt d pa xa nahn mkg.talk, leave hm sa

[cromagnon]

mas maayo mag pa layo sa , kay ego nman gud na ang nag palabwanay .

after some time , mingawon mana sa usag2 usa.

[ain]

Btaw.. sakto jud.... dapat mansad na give time sad jud bah kon init pa au kaso sometimes dli nato matiis and gusto nato solve dyon... Pero depende lang na... case to case basis... Kay kuyaw au mabugwakan nya ta sa kayo sa dragon na mangapaig na nuon tah ani ron... kuyaw! hahaha...

[jamesk]

The answer depends on how capable the couple is in handling themselves under pressure. If even one of them quickly becomes unreasonable when fighting, then it's best to cool down before resolving things, otherwise, things will only get worse without resolving anything. If both of them can still talk to each other in a reasonable manner even when angry, then resolve things at once.

In case you're wondering what unreasonable looks or sounds like:
- If you talk more about past things than the current issue
- If one resorts to hitting the other, or breaking stuff around the place
- If one believes shouting proves their point
- If one actually thinks that having insecurities entitles them to be right
- If the tsismis is the only thing that started the fight (I mean, if you trust a rumor monger more than your partner, you have trust issues that run pretty deep and must be resolved first.)

The list goes on but we've all been there. We would know if we can resolve the issue immediately or not.

[paheng]

dapat mupagawas sa tanan gibati.... pero kung human na... muhilom...dn dapat naa magpaubos... dn bak to normal napd

[m!nyanG]

gve time usa,,like 10mins ,,,hahha lakaw usa dn pahangin...ig ok2 na,,balik s2rya,,,mag hi usa...hehehe

[anjo9778]

1 of them should make the first move or lower down pride or else...
gud mowning!

[ain]

Sakto Jud....

[reymags]

for me dpat settle dwn jd daun oi bati ma ugmaan...mabahaw nya

[ain]

Depende raman gud ni sa stuation. KOn grabeh ang away or madala2x ra....