Originally Posted by
igiptomo
15 yo na ang edad, 3rd yr hs going 4th yr. kicked out kay di motuon, di mohimo ug assignment. bisan unsaon ug sulti, bokbok. patuo gamay, balik nasad. sige lang hinungdan sa gubot kay ang inahan di gusto pasakitan ang bata sa iyang amahan. bisan unsaon ug sulti nga ang iyang mama tua sa laing nasud naningkamot para maka eskwela...etc...gahi gyud ug o. unsa kahay remedyo aning mga klases mga bata o tao (tao na ni kay 15 na)?
wa mani problema ning bataa kay naa may income ang ginikanan although di kaayo dako. di pud himarkada. naa ra pirmi sa ilang bay sige computer. naay classmates nga mga chicks sige text niya, di pud replyan. di pud spoiled? suwapang tingali ning klaseha sa bata/tao? ipadoktor (Psychologist) kaha ni nila?
DEFIANT children may have its roots from maltreatment of his/her own parents, so unconsciously the child declares "war" wherever he may be situated..
but granting there was no maltreatment/traumas whatsoever & the child just turn out to be defiant for whatever reason & you have done your best healthy approach to straighten the child but to no avail then it would be wise to let things be,,maybe the child needs to suffer,,as his lifes education,,some people just prefer "touching the fire" to really realize that it burns,
at a times our concern may not be of help,,,not helping might help to some people/kids.
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