Less of the Intimacy

[ronz_rodz]

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The goal in an intimate relationship is to feel calm, centered and focused. When we lack these elements in our relationships it is due in large part to an inability to establish and maintain healthy boundaries with one another. Healthy boundaries allow a person to experience comfortable interdependence with other people, resulting in well functioning relationships and positive self-regard

[jenny223]

it really depends...


L0VE cann0t be measured by that al0ne...


BUT instinct always right!...

i'm n0t encouraging you t0 think negative hap....examine different angles first bef0re

ka mgsakit sa dughan dha...k?...eheheeh


have faith lang dear...if you been d0in that bef0re nya unya nikalit kausab im0ng partner,

then you really have t0 check na jud...basin cge rasad nimu gi consider imong self nya wala nka

kita sa iya needs...there are times na we d0n't feel d0in it man, s0 be a little c0nsiderate lng pra nia

0r para nimu!...

gbu...

[paris2009]

No, There must have been a realization that you must respect, to await on readiness for all levels of love is important for a full functioning relationship, just be yourself and establish clear communication and love.

[edddder]

please try to check your current situation, is she/he works to much... this would result to less energy to do it.

[beyee]

hmmmm... could be

1. no interest anymore
2. being intimate has become a chore for the partner
3. has another playmate, so no more energy left
4. out of guilt that he fooled around with another playmate
5. too tired from work
6. has a problem
7. finds you no longer desirable
8. has a problem down there
9. has found out ur havin' another playmate
10. like you said, has fallen out of love...

..hope that the reason is just what stated in no. 5

[chinody]

not all the time man happy or intimate ang relationship..but dli pud nang cold na kaau ug tinagdan.

[chinody]

if maabot ang time na less intimate storyaan ninyo nganu. or if unsay poblema sa imo partner basg naa poblema.

[Maikeru]

kung ang purpose ninyo why nagkauyab mo or why nagpadaun mo ana nga relationship is kanang intimacy (ibutang nato og physical) then, uu.. ala na interest nimo if ala na xa intimacy. But if lahi inyo purpose, sample for settling down, it's not always the case.

[stretch_mat]

Intimacy... It's not only the bases for real Love kay kung mao na ang basehan it's not really a love. I'll just share this message and hope this could help... ^_^

The Love Test

Have you ever made decisions about your relationships based on your feelings instead of the facts? When it comes to love, feelings rule the day. Emotions guide the ship. Goose bumps call the shots. But should they? Can feelings be trusted? Can a relationship feel right but be wrong?
Feelings can fool you. Yesterday I spoke with a teenage girl who is puzzled by the lack of feelings she has for a guy. Before they started dating, she was wild about him. The minute he showed interest in her, however, she lost interest.
I’m thinking also of a young mom. Being a parent isn’t as romantic as she anticipated. Diapers and midnight feedings aren’t any fun, and she’s feeling guilty because they aren’t. Am I low on love? she wonders.
How do you answer such questions? Ever wish you had a way to assess the quality of your affection? A DNA test for love? Paul offers us one: “Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth” (1 Cor. 13:6 NIV). In this verse lies a test for love.
Want to separate the fake from the factual, the counterfeit from the real thing? Want to know if what you feel is genuine love? Ask yourself this:
Do I encourage this person to do what is right? For true love “takes no pleasure in other people’s sins but delights in the truth” (1 Cor. 13:6 JB).
If you find yourself prompting evil in others, heed the alarm. This is not love. And if others prompt evil in you, be alert.
Here’s an example. A classic one. A young couple are on a date. His affection goes beyond her comfort zone. She resists. But he tries to persuade her with the oldest line in the book: “But I love you. I just want to be near you. If you loved me …”
That siren you hear? It’s the phony-love detector. This guy doesn’t love her. He may love having *** with her. He may love her body. He may love boasting to his buddies about his conquest. But he doesn’t love her. True love will never ask the “beloved” to do what he or she thinks is wrong.
Love doesn’t tear down the convictions of others. Quite the contrary.
“Love builds up” (1 Cor. 8:1).
“Whoever loves a brother or sister lives in the light and will not cause anyone to stumble” (1 John 2:10).
“You are sinning against Christ when you sin against other Christians by encouraging them to do something they believe is wrong” (1 Cor. 8:12 NLT).
Do you want to know if your love for someone is true? If your friendship is genuine? Ask yourself: Do I influence this person to do what is right?

[vg2]

discuss it with ur partner. if that doesnt satisfy u then stalk around for answers urself... for me its not the only basis also but its still a basis.. hehehe