
Originally Posted by
radnop
ouch! sakita pud ani oi.. im a husband and up coming father... i'd rather not say nga bahalag walay asawa basta naa lang ang bata.. gusto ko kompleto akong pamilya.. i'll take care of my kids as well as my wife.. i love them all and i'll do everything i can for my family
i hope someone will agree with me... kinahanglan completo ang pamilya ryt?
I totally disagree with this statement, ang goal man gyud nato is to make sure that our family is intact. Kinsa man sad ganahan nga bungkag ang family but unsaon man nimo kung di na gyud pwede, ang conflicts kay grabe na and then its the kids who are suffering. I'm proud to say that I am separated and my kids are with me. I dumped by husband for a lot of reasons and it was the wisest decision I've made. This is my take on your statement, if both couples are no longer having a healthy relationship with each other and repair is not even an option then it would be best to let go.
As for the question about the kids, sus...mag world war 3 man lang di ko mo allow kuhaon akong kids away from me. The father did not even do his obligation of providing for my daughters' needs then iya pa gyud kuhaon. Akoy ga buhi ron nila keeping two jobs just to stay afloat financially, I take them out on weekends, to the extent of forgetting myself for the sake of my kids. If you want to see your kids, make sure you deserve to be with them as a responsible parent. Not simply because you want to hold on to a trophy!!