Long Distance Relationships

[j_cainglet]

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TO MOSIMOS

come on..don't be so offended with ldr.you seems so bitter with it darlin'.. .it may not be your type but it workds for other people...esp to me..

secondly, i am not to sacrifice my work! in fact i'll bring my work there in cebu ( i am working in a home-based callcenterÂ* ) Luckily , the owner of the company and i discussed of expanding the company there in cebu by the next few months.It'll give me time to set up a callcenter and office of my own..a good sign of my career growth.Does it sound ending my career??definitely NOT..

another point is that when you're in a rel'ship, may it be ldr or not, doesn't fully mean you marry theÂ* person..I bet you know this that inÂ* rel'ship it gives you an opportunity to know him/her more..

the success and failure of a rel'ship lies on the fact of who you are and who you are unto him/her.Don't blame the proximity and distance.It is a fact of life.

and most of all..needless to say nor explain to you how happy i am right now.God knows my dearÂ*

now, what i am suggesting is you just enjoy what you have right now and don't force yourself to believe in ldr.I i fully respect you
on your view whatever re'lship and setting you are in or not..k?i pray you're happy my dear..good luck

peace..

J. cainglet

I am not offended.Â* Im just trying to show the inadequacy and the uncertainty of LDR.Â*

You state that LDR gives you an opportunity to know the other person.Â* How could you know the other personm if you are not together?Â* YOu text or you call, how do you know nga wala mag hiwi hiwi ang nawong sa imo uyab nga dili man nimo siya ma talk sa phone?

Talk is cheap dear. He would say I love you but how do you know. I have been to LDR once.Â* I was honest but I was betrayed.Â* It was painful and it was unfair.Â*

As I have maintained before, LDR people should not claim success in their relationship unless they are together and get married.Â* It is a contingent proposition my dear.Â* You live each day as it comes.

oh i am sorry to hear that mosimos..:i deeply apologize for my words too.
now i know how you feel towards ldr..i feel that too when i had my first ldr--which happened to be my first love--and it really hurt..

it took more than a year to mend my feelings. In fact i almost didn't graduate because of him.That time love turned into hatred but somehow i forgave him in the long run..(naa man gud syay'y nauyab) that time i learnt my lesson well..I also promised that i won't enter ldr anymore but it turned against my promise
However,this time, thank God, I am happy and God made a way for us to be with each other...this time i am anxious, but i feel i am ready..

i pray that you'll be happy and you''ll find where your heart belongs...

[ricky_loco72]

i agree with the majority...if you really love each other...believe and trust in each other...the long-distance realtinship WILL last! as long as you believe strongly in the relationship...it will push through!

[t3ChNo™]

that's the keyword: TRUST

[wyt`fReEs!a]

in short: LDR or NOT f theres no TRUST, RESPECT-LOVE, FAITHFULLNESS and GOD between 2 couple it wont work

and i do bliv dat maduol or malayo kung dili jud kamo ang ipares sa Ginoo wa japun... mao LDR or NOT bsta mag ampo lang mo and both couple will take care of relationship they build it will work jud...


TO: MOSIMOS... now i understand y u insist na LDR wont work & i respect thatÂ*

[burning_ice]

that's true. you just have to make good of your commitment to each other
cge lagi kuyog, pro mao lang japon...

[bordz_me]

only few people can be trusted nowadays...

[jugs_06]

@bordz_me: sakto jud ka.. agree kau ko.. mao ng LDR sucks..

[angelfyre]

i used to be in one. we had our ups and downs. mostly ups head over heels. til namatay sya. no regrets.

[jugs_06]

@angelfyre: ur situation is absolutely one of those that no one wants to be in.. but saludo ko nimo girl.. na kaya ra jud nimo..

nisamot og kasakit nga layo mu dayn mao na ang nahitabo. kung dili mu into long distance rel, dli cgro ingana kasakit imong ma feel.

[angelfyre]

lately friends have been telling me their love probs. usa ra jd akng masulti nila: as long as buhi pa, naa pa juy chance na magbalik mo/ma remedied inyong probs, unlike mine. its not na i belittled their probs, but heck, hes dead, there's no way i could compete wid death. but we managed. i know murag horror na ni gamay pero we communicate, thru dreams, cge sya paramdam.

im not ok reli, but at least i know he is there all the time, wla nay long distance i talk to him as if he was never gone. there are days na mo atake ang kasakit and the realization that hes gone, magminatay kog hilak. we had this love, nga even some ppl scoff at it, it was true. how we made it work? trust and communication. even in the nxt life.

no regrets jd ko, even if i had to repeat it again and il know ing ani ang mahitabo, ok lng. twas one helluvan xperience. tho i miss him, wat comforts me right now is that soon il see him. soon. nauna lng sya