
Originally Posted by
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depnde rman guro na how both of you handle your relationship. if you prefer to be single coz you believe na you value your freedom, go ahead. if, on the other hand, you feel that you'll be happy with your special someone, then again, go ahead.=) happiness really dpends on you: if you want to prefer to be happy then you set aside the small arguments and compromise. anyways, why enter in a relationship if you're not emotionally ready?
of course, no one lives in a fairy tale dream. everyone has problems. the thing is to make some adjustments. if you're in a relationship, you dont think ONLY about yourself anymore (that's why nga you're in a relationship diba-coz you're willing to share a part of you). if in some cases like you lose your freedom, why don't you tell your partner that each of you still deserves to have a privacy? i think simple problems can be solve by just talking it over in a diplomatic way. you don't need to shout or slam the door or phone when you can just sit and talk things over. if you're not comfortable with your relationship, tell your partner. otherwise, if you're still not happy, then better live and be happy separately...=)
i dont think that being in a relationship limits you in everything that you do. why don't you do the same things together. the more, the merrier diba. then if it doesnt work, then have fun separately. sinabtanay rman cguro nah.