nganu big deal man kaayo sa family members na mu-hang out sa guy fren?

[voyager]

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.......i'm 21. graduate. board passer. responsible. obedient child ever since. ako parents super strict to the point na i hardly have any social life pag college. most of my good frens are from my high school ra. now i have this good guy fren. actually neighbor ra. we hangout usahy sa mall. and i dont see the reason to tell them ahead na magmeet me ky wa raman juy special reason to tell it. didn't expect they'd take it as if "naa na daw ko laki"..."bail daw ko etc." naa man daw nakakita family fren. and it sucks bisan unsa ra ila ma-think / judge about me. i'm not the open type of person mn gud. guess they should respect that. i'm not dong anything wrong. pero i don't want them to think of me that way pod. im pretty xur it will spread to my relatives etc. big deal out of nothing. oh yeah, add the fact na NBSB ko. but certainly im not donig wrong. naa pod bya GF ni ako guy fren. i simply cant stand the fact na bisan unsa ra ila ma-think nako.

any advice?

[Egoist]

conservative lang pmilya nimo,,, suggestion nako? lisud man da kaw sa TS unsa man kaha imo buhaton ana?

[voyager]

keep away from male species? i don't know. palayo lang sa ko sa ako migo..i guess. hate it lng jud.. accusing au ila panan-aw. baseless. senseless. sad thing seems like defenseless ko. tsk..

[RemohDude]

think of your own good, ur all grown up already, though parents pretends to be always a parents, wala gyud na silay sayop sa ilahang point of view..best way to do is imoha na sila hinayhinayon ug splikar nga you can carry urself on your own decisions...dats ol

[voyager]

think of your own good, ur all grown up already, though parents pretends to be always a parents, wala gyud na silay sayop sa ilahang point of view..best way to do is imoha na sila hinayhinayon ug splikar nga you can carry urself on your own decisions...dats ol

right. see what i can do.

[kyutie]

my mother is a bit lyk that pd b4.. super strict samot na kng boys aqng k.strya, k.kuyog and uban pah.. that's y m not super close 2 boys and i dont want to start a talk w/ them.. pero karn na college naq, wla na nuon.. g.hnay2 naq ug open up aqng self saqng mother and my family kay saona wa jd q kstrya dri amoa.. dnt lyk to open up things lng gyd saqng family, dats y i was more close to my frends saona.. mao na, ok na karn.. hehehe

[Tirong-say]

Conservative sila and the same time very protective, be open lang nila, and I think this will resolve your predicament, maayo na makahibalo gyud sila unsa ka, para dili na sila mag-duda ug mabalaka.

[michzy]

when i was in college, ako papa strict jud kaayo. Mao dili jud ko kasabot nganong ingon ana sya nako. If naay mabusita nako nga guy, distorbohon jud ko nya hangtod makasabot nalang ang guy nga dili gusto ako papa nga naay mubisita nko. Lisod bitaw ning strict ang parents pero im sure they did it for your own good man pud. Karon nag work nako dili naman, try to open lang to your family nga friends ra jud mo unya try to respect lang their advise. Try sad nga to win their trust para eventually in return mo salig cla nimo.