Is it ok na imong gf/ASAWA naka suway na og one night stand?

[shoeless_rebel]

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sakto jud. there are things better left unsaid. even if u reach a point na u think u can trust ur partner with that info about u, ud still have the fear that he'll run away from u someday. the truth is, everybody can accept past imperfections but not to that extent. nobody would want to sleep with someone who slept with everybody...

but then again, depende ra jud na sa tao. if kibaw ka daan ing-ana na ang girl and ud still go for it then makaingon na jud ang tao nga ang nakasala kay ang gugmang gi-liver hehe

hello ice

for me i think it is way better if ingnan ko da-an sa ako girl na naka one night stand siya before... and i will do the same. coz if my girl had *** as a hobby before and slept with everybody... m pretty sure i'll find out sooner or later coz i used to run with those kind of people and stories about conquest travels fast.

ma accept nako siya coz honest siya nako and she is brave enough to face her past mistakes... but if iya i-tago then makabalo ko sa uban tao about her past... sorry nalang. tarong baya kaayo ko kung ma in-love ko... himo-un gyud nako princess ako ma uyab with a past or wala.

some secrets have ways of surfacing no matter how hard you try to hide it.

so don't even think of hiding it.

[jumps_zilla]

i agree shoeless. honesty is one of the things that can make good relationship. no secrets.

[ciga_shake]

hi shoeless crush ng bayan hehehe

actually i go for honesty all the way but sometimes you have to keep some things to urself. if girls with wild pasts lay all their cards on the table, most guys would run away. i have friends who experienced the same thing. perhaps it's just a matter of timing i dunno. if you say it too early, the guy would scram. if you say it too late, the guy would hold it against you forever. it's a catch 22 situation.

i would call not talking about one's past an omission, not hiding. it's in the past right? why wake up the dead?

[kyuusai]

what if you knew that she had experienced one night stand but then she would deny it.. you keep discussing it but then she insist that she didn't. would you still go for her inspite of that?

[Sanosuke]

maybe simple ra ang solution... if you have a gf den u found out that she does dat thing before.... find another girl.. Not all girls do those things, there are still girls who holds firmly on morals and values.

You might say, sagdi lag one night stander kay buotan man, nya caring, nya love man ko, nya gwapa pa jud, etc...

ngano man, wala diay tarong or "morally driven" girl nga buotan, nga e care ug e love ka, nya gwapa pa jud... diba?

It doesnt matter to me that a girl is a virgin or taken already... what makes me sick is the idea that a girl just dances in the dance floor and in just "ONE CLICK", just go out with a stranger and gets laid... and does it again the following week...

idea lang ni nako mga brods ha, lain2x manta ug stands sa lyf...

[ciga_shake]

the question u gotta answer kyuusai is who do u trust? ur girl or hearsay? that's the thing about stories. u never know where it came from. if the story came from a close friend of urs or u saw the whole thing urself, uv got a problem. do u have indisputable evidence to counter her story that she didn't have a one-night stand? u can't accuse her pud na she's lying dba coz ud lose her too...

supah libog!

[oasis]

The question is "Is it ok na imong gf naka suway na og one night stand??"

Personally, it's alright AS LONG AS that happened ONLY ONCE and IT HAPPENED BEFORE YOU WERE TOGETHER.

The problem with the society is that they view it as immorality if the crime is done by women and view it as true manhood if men do it.

Everybody's not perfect, men and women are not perfect.

[spike_jersey12]

***ITS OK AS LONG as it happend before u became part of her!!!

[sinistro]

maybe simple ra ang solution... if you have a gf den u found out that she does dat thing before.... find another girl.. Not all girls do those things, there are still girls who holds firmly on morals and values.

You might say, sagdi lag one night stander kay buotan man, nya caring, nya love man ko, nya gwapa pa jud, etc...

ngano man, wala diay tarong or "morally driven" girl nga buotan, nga e care ug e love ka, nya gwapa pa jud... diba?

It doesnt matter to me that a girl is a virgin or taken already... what makes me sick is the idea that a girl just dances in the dance floor and in just "ONE CLICK", just go out with a stranger and gets laid... and does it again the following week...

idea lang ni nako mga brods ha, lain2x manta ug stands sa lyf...

im with you on this,, amen to that, i mean nindot man ang 1 nyt stand just as long dili involve imu uyab hehehe,,

[shoeless_rebel]

again... it's ok so long as honest siya nako and na happen na before mi nag ka ila or before we became a couple. it doesn't really matter... dili nalang usbon. i went out with girls like that and they're ok... who am i to say that they're bad when i do it myself alot before. cguro if wala ko ka experience ug 1 night stand basin dili cguro nako ma dawat.