Father having an affair with a GRO

[yvonne6]

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confront the father pero not in a manner nga mura kag nangasaba ug manghod nimo. let him understand how painful this is for you (kids) and your mom, the shame this will bring to the family and it will eventually damage your father aswell. ang mga laki man gud, murag iro...dili mabuang sa itoy pa, adto na mabuang kung kanang edaran na. how other people could not see what they are gambling for nothing...tanga kaau ang uban taw sa matang sa biga......oh biga, grabe ka gamhanan, bahalag maguba ang pamilya

[nitesky]

kung pede pa lang kulatahon nko ako papa kulatahon jud nko pero di man nko kaya kay papa baya na nko. Ako sultian ako papa oie. AKo ingnon pa sa tanan GRO ra imo makit-an? walay datu nga tiguwang? bitaw ako istorya-an ako papa... nya kung di mo undang, sumbong ko n mama kay she has every right to know.

[whiskey]

the best thing is tell your mom about the insanity that your father did.surely they will discuss on that.your mom must know that.

[bloodyred]

"ug sa tanang tao na pwede makit an, GRO pa jud? kahugaw ana..!" sus.. mao jud na akong unang linya isulti tingali sa amahan nga nag ing ana.. tsk tsk! makawala jud ug respeto. and sad to say, you don't have a choice coz he's your father.. i think it's advisable to tell your mom na naay kabit inyong amahan na GRO kay hugaw baya na. wa ta kabaw na nakakuha na na ug sakit imong papa dira gikan sa GRO nya mapasa ba ron. simbako intawn! basta things like that.

[raboy50]

Basin baya dunay nahimong sala ang imong mother nga ang imo ra papa ang nahibawo or adunay pagkukulang ang imo mama mao nagpahungaw nalang ang imo papa sa GRO kay naa sa GRO ang iyang gipangita nga wala nya kit-i sa imong mama.

[fingolfin]

.. it's wrong to confront only the father, don't be one-sided. Make an open discussion between, you, your mother and your father. Present the current situation and ask them BOTH.... WHY

[babypaupau]

its easier said than done.

my dad had an affair and my mom left him. that happened 10 yrs ago and now that im already an adult,im more than ever qualified to confront him about it. thing is, i cant and im not sure i want to. its painstakingly difficult to accept that ur dad is having an affair with somebody who is way way way out of ur mom's calibre, but confronting ur dad about it is next to impossible. specially if their marital problem has caused you a great deal of pain and confusion at a very critical time of your life.

i dont think the pain would go away totally... so no. i dont want to discuss it with my parents, my dad or my mom. thinking about it now makes me wanna cry na gani, how much more if i have to deal with it face to face. hahaha

[Tirong-say]

There is no other alternative just let your father know that you know about the affair and you did not like it, and ask him what is important, the family he headed or the syota ng bayan.......

[thaDUKE]

butangan lageh nako akong amahan sa kumo nako nya ask dayun nganong gbuhat nimo ang kabit na GRO pa gyud

[ellehpo28]

Do you know kung asa magkita imong dad and GRO?
Ok, bisan asa pa, ang akong buhaton, I will secretly find a way na makaadto mi sa akong mama sa meeting place nila and pretend that we will accidentally see them or kung sa usa ka balay, knock on the door.

My point is di maka deny ang imong papa sa iyang gibuhat. And sure na mag start ang confrontation.
Lisod man mag open ng confrontation.