How can I stop loving the person who hurts me most?

[judezzzy]

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I can relate a bit, I'm kind of going through the same at the moment, di siguro exactly the same sa imo situation but nasakitan sad.... best solution.... start adopting a "KEVS" or keber attitude.... like bahala siya...
daghan ra laki ah... but I know lisod gyud ni siya.. uhmmm if it's hard for you to do this right now...

just start loving your self more! ..... it's kind of selfish.. but you must love yourself first

"So if you're hurt, just try to use your pain for yourself instead of against you. Go to the gym, work out a lot, get your nails and hair done...do whatever you can so you can feel more pretty and confident!"

Other tips:
1.) cry cry cry.. let it all out... para ma hubas ang pain.. ma pul.an ra ka kadugayan... but don't let him see you hurt or cry ever.. show him that you're okay and you're just fine without him..

2.) list down and think of the qualities na eiwwww niya.. like hugaw ug kuko... baho ug ulo.. bugason.. siga ug mata.. murag bayot sa kaputi.. kagiron... hugawan... loser.. jerk... *ssh*le... tanan negative niya.... then basaha siya everyday.. and you can swear to yourself that the next man has/is none of the above. and think.. why the hell do I love him anyway.. eiwww....

3.) avoid him... as much as possible avoid the loser.... dont call him.. dont text.. dont read his messages.. if naa saved messages... erase them if di nimo kaya ayaw tawn basaha... better yet.. erase his number. ..or block him in any comm portal as possible..

4.) go out with your friends... P-A-R-T-Y!!!!! but be careful when you get drunk.. coz we always have the urge to text, call or confront him basta under the influence of alcohol.. ayaw lang gyud..

5.) since you are beautiful... and loser siya for hurting you.. start meeting new people.. new friends... to widen the possibilities of dating a new guy... who is way better than that guy who hurt you... and if you do... date.. even if dili nimo type gyud.. date lang.. coz who knows diba..

6.) also do extra kuri-kuri activities... hmmn.. aside from like uhh feeding your body.. feed your soul too... participate in feeding programs (I did this before)... visit a homeless shelter or home for the aged... tutor someone.... etc., and a good way of meeting someone else.. na possibly buotan pa diba..?

ug last but not the least.. think lang that it's not your LOSS but his.. basta shofa ka.. mao na na! pa gwapa lang gyud ug pa sexy ug samot sis... sila ra lagi na mag laway nya... pustaanay pa hehehe..

thank u, thank u, thank u sis! i really appreciate all the stuff u wrote here! cge lang, i will keep everything in mind and pray lang jud. i'll keep on praying for things to get better. slamat!

[dongday]

miga, kung laki imu gi prblema, laki ra sad ang solution.....

[tessF]

miga, kung laki imu gi prblema, laki ra sad ang solution.....

korek .. ilisi sya mas labaw pa niya. para ma divert imo feling

[ierolennail]

gi sum up na ni babykai imu kailangan pra mka move on..kaw nlng ang ghuwat kugn kanus-a ka mulihok...

[vahnhelsing]

you can not stop it.. it will gently fade away... mapul.an ra ka madugay sa paghigugma sa tawo nga walay au...and that time makadecide naka to move on...

[reanne002]

what if im that guy? ^_^

[reanne002]

what if im that guy? ^_^ joke. ^_^

[prettybabyandi]

been through this too...

the only way to stop is to really just STOP.. thats it.

[prettybabyandi]

and pray.. always pray for strength.....

[alundril]

kung ang problema nimo d ka kapugong sa imong gibati, try knitting, it helps.

seriously naa ra na nimo kung magpadayun ra sa imong gibati, sa kadaghan ug suggestions nga imo mabasa dire usually common advice would be to stop or to find someone better. gamita sa ang imong utok, dli puro kasing kasing, para d magbasol