flings

[babypaupau]

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i read this book by michelle meneses and i came across this

flings are not for everyone. it would be best if [one] could be absolutely sure that they can handle flings without suffering unbearable guilt, without getting too hurt emotionally, and without becoming callous and cynical,before they do it.

it got me thinking, is that possible? and can you stop yourself from getting emotionally attached to your "fling"?

what do you think guys?

[odrujahad]

k raman na kahbaw lng jd ka mobatang ug limit

[jahbert]

know your limits... thats all..

[thaDUKE]

yeah so should know how to handle about that and know your limits bcin masakitan nasad ka nya na inlove haha

[babypaupau]

i think naa jud possibility na ma emotionally attached ka sa person specially if uve been seeing each other for quite some time.

[esprugodoys]

i think naa jud possibility na ma emotionally attached ka sa person specially if uve been seeing each other for quite some time.

yes there is indeed a great possibility but one should know the grounds he or she is in... in that manner the person will know how to set limitations as to which this special kind of relationship is up until. but to one who has softer touch will definitely be in a great dilemma as it goes on and on.. ^_^

[jntio]

dli lng gd ka padala...

[flanker]

ahihihi... nag taksil cguro ni c babypau..

[dareal26]

the word "fling" was created because there are people or a couple who like each other, likes to be with one another, but don't have to be serious or have a formal relationship,. in short, it's just a casual relationship, better to have no strings attached, but sad to say, flings may possibly capture your emotions, especially if your weak... but this doesn't mean that a fling is same as a serious or formal relationship, it is only the possibilities that will lead to that. A fling for me is like having a friend with benefits.. mao na xa. so just be careful babypaupau..hehe^_^

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

in the first place,why would u want to be in such situation?basically because u are attracted and interested to the person u wanna fling with, ryt?so if not all, the biggest possibility is that most feelings grow...attraction and interest will go deeper and from there emotional attachment develops...we can say that we have to set limitations but if feelings take place and love exists, can we still control that?can we still poke ourselves and tell ourselves "hey! u're exceeding ur limit!!!"...yes, there are options, either to go on or to stop but then again feelings never remain platonic...it changes...the longer u stay together as fling could either make or break you...either way, we still end up as losers in the game called LOVE...