my hubby is pretty much like a loner before we got married. he prefered to just stay at home and watch t.v or play pc games but as we lived together, i urged him to go to different places, attend social gatherings although he refused still i drag him there. we used to go for a tour abroad and yet its the same story, he prefered to be in our room, i like mingling with people but i dont mind his ways either cause thats the way he is and i love him that way but the only good thing is that lately, when i stopped forcing him to go anywhere now his the one dragging me to parties cause he likes it. he gets to make friends with people who thinks the same as him which is a good idea.
its really a matter of time before they come out of their shells.haha
just dont rush it,take it slow and things will go on your way if you know how to trick them. hehe





