Wo Ai Ni: Regarding Relationships with Chinese and Chinese-Filipinos

[KASAAC]

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^nganu mag pa control man sad ka? pangita ug trabaho para dili sila kabuot nimu

[Tirong-say]

You have all te right to choose the person you could call the perfect being for you, Philippine law does not prohibit you to do that decission without or beyond your parent's consent.For me you are always free to do so, but as Sis Kassac said be independent for we do not know how your parents would react.

[akosijason]

awh,if imong oyab willing mo fight so dapat ninyo e continue inyo relationship, but if dli ganahan mo fight ang imo oyab di ayaw nalang pd kay alkansi ka...daghan na na situation na happen ani,...bt naa rana NINYONG DUHA wala na sa mga parents...

[nitwit]

im part chinese but im married to an ozie guy.my parents never cared, never mind as long as he is gonna love and take care of me then everything is good.

it depends on who you are dealing with, but some chinese are still following the old tradition mostly are those who are into huge businesses so they can cultivate and make more money by combining it.

my mum is very strict when it comes to dating but she never interefere or question me why i choose this guy and etc..

all they said to me is if i think that guy is the right one for me and im not gonna regret it later, then marry him but if u have doubts, then wait and see..it's my life and whatever path i choose theyre gonna respect it but as a parent,.no matter what circumstances i am into, theyre always gonna be there for me no matter what.

[vahnhelsing]

fight jud.... it would be so silly for a lover to follow others.. thats why you have your own heart and mind for you to decide on such things.... follow what your heart desires..

“Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength.”

[maitoots]

if it's worth fighting for go for it.. nya karn pd na time ang mga parents mabuot gud pero if they sense the sincerity and they see the good intention of the guy they somehow agree nlang. i think sa pure chinese ra jud daghan instances na mag buot ang parents kay most of them arranged marriage man gud na.. but as i have said, if it's worth the fight go for it

[jennilexshop]

hahaiz.. dpende na sa bae uie.. ako chinese mn ko. my parents can never dcyd pra nko uie...

[xxSTARLIGHT]

Love conquers all..

[sweetplayer]

naa na gyud na nimo if pada ka.

[Bluebubble]

personally...that depaneds raman kay if you really love each other then both parties must work...learning each others culture & the like...I am 50% chinese...my mother is 100% chinese..mao pud nah iya nah experience nah ebuya2...but eventually she ended up with my father...g.barugan jud nila ila decision...though there are hard times but still they made it through...understanding, love ug respect jud...hehehe....right now, dili man magbuot ako mom sah ako..that depands on meh daw...dili sxa nahan nga kung unsa iya nah experience mah experience pud nako...heheheheheheh....