My married friend gets a divorce since she just had a baby with a gay guy

[nitwit]

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[ellehpo28]

medyo lisod ni.

Btw, where's the mother of the baby?
You cannot adopt the child coz your hubby doesn't want to. So, adoption is no option.
And if you keep the baby longer, basin kamo ang magbuwag sa imong hubby ug masakitan ka emotionally.


Now the question is, kinsa ang mas importante nimo:
a) help your friend and the baby but magbuwag mo sa imong bana; or
b) bring back the child sa iyahang ginikanan, (inahan or amahan, whatever and whoever) and live peacefully with your husband, have your own child and be happy.

Now choose.

(I'm sure you know where your friend lives, just go there and leave the child to the mother, period. No explanation whatsoever. Leave immediately.)

Let your friend solve her own problem.
Naay thread diri na gusto mag adopt ug baby and she's gonna raise the baby in US. If the child is not registered yet, then it will be easier but don't get involve with it anymore. Let your friend handle her own problems na lang.

[nitwit]

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[hizuka007]

btaw dapat legal ang imong pang adopt anang bataa na., kay kung sa sunod motungha lang kalit ang inahan dili na niya basta2x makuha.. or ipaadopt nimo na, ad2 bantay bata dd2 bilin

sala sa babae nganong nangigat sa bayot.... naa ba diay love nga makig *ahem* sa bayot? .... ngilad na ang babae...... ang mas sakit pajud diha sa part sa lalaki kay BAYOT pa jud ang nakabuntis ... kaloko ay

[pugak_79]

if wala pa mo kids, keep the baby. Maybe your hubby will like him later on. If the mother comes back for him within months, take it as a "PRE-PARENTHOOD TRAINING". If not, adopt the baby legally para walay problems later on.

Biology does not make a family. Love does.

[zzexniwp312]

louya sa baby oie

[KASAAC]

luoy jud ang baby na among sa pagka irresponsible bitaw sa parent sigh...adopt nalang na sis wui legally ba....

[okoy]

if i were you, contact the girls relatives in this country, its hard to take care a baby not of your own blood. if can't find them, just take good care of the baby or hire a nanny for the sake of your friend. Life really bites, when someday the baby might be taken away from you but don't forget that you will be having a family of your own, you might not be able to handle situations as between from your supposed to be adopted and from your real child.... Life just passes by if theres a problem, theres a solution if none, it will just come to pass....

[ellehpo28]

nitwit:

Since your hubby said it's ok to keep the baby for mean time, then keep it as long as you have to condition yourself that one day the baby might be taken back by his/her mother or father. Am still not 100% sure kung okay na you adopt the child since ang condition sa imong hubby is that once naa na mo baby, he cannot be sure na equal ang treatment niya sa mga kids. That situation will create unhealthy environment among the kids during their growing up years. Kaluoy sa bata gihapon and you will always be in the middle of it all. Sige kag mag arbiter every time na mag-away mga bata. Di man malikayan na mag-away mga bata. Basin ang usa ka bata maging spoiled brat and ang usa rebellious.

I think you have to consult the barangay or DSWD about it. Report the situation. Don't complicate your life. You can still visit the child and give support even if he/she is in the care of DSWD.

Your friend might get you into trouble. She could make up stories that you kidnapped her child to make money out of you.

NOt unless your hubby is 100% okay with the idea without any condition, then adopt the child, legally.

[nitwit]

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