
Originally Posted by
Eliza Imee Cajegas
Okay, let me begin by stating that culture and values are not innate or inborn, rather they are learned by the child from his environment. "Pakikisama" (for me at least) is when a person behaves in a certain way so that his status among his peers becomes stable or "levels up". THis is learned through Operant Conditioning where if he or she does something agreeable to his or her peers, he will receive a reinforcement, therefore strengthening the person's desire to repeat the behavoir. The pressure from peers to conform especially in adolescence (where teens depend on their groups for their identity and where cliquishness and intolerance of diffence is prevalent) is great. So that, teens end up being "forced" to do things they normally wouldn't.
Example:
A girl goes out with her friends and ends up going home later than her curfew. The reason? Her friend teased her and called her "Kj" or "Kill Joy". The girl, feeling the pressure, decided to stay later than she normally would.
Ok
Also, from another point of view, "pakikisama" is also a form of adaptation that helps humans survive socially.
Source: My mind.. Hehe. .