
Originally Posted by
Tirong-say
My first question is why he/she was able to hurt you before and if she/he is capable of hurting you before then there is a big possibilty that he/she could hurt you in the future.I do not believe that realization comes out naturally,there are some factors that instigates behind,maybe his ambitions for traits of a perfect being failed and that is why he/she comes back to you,then how about if she/he would find another more suitable and he/she found easier to have,there is a big probability that he/she would hurt you again.Maybe he/she is seeking something that you do not have and for now only forced himself/herself to have you back to console him/her.For me it is better to move on and wait for somebody who will love you who you are and whatever you are.