i think its not that bad man siguro.

"dili mo close" is quite vague.

Most probably, nakaingon ka nga dili mo close kay dili ka niya pirmi atimanon, or daygon, or istoryahon. Siguro because maayo kaayo imo binuhatan, a very good anak. In that sense, if you do good, she expected it to be. And she feels nga kaya na nimo ang imo kaugalingon, and that you are responsible enough na.

You dont need to please her aron lang matagad ka niya.

Most probably, happy kaayo imo mother sa imong pagkaikaw as her anak.


My suggestion is... give you mother a gift nga she really would love to have but wa niya gi-expect to receive from anybody. A wanted surprise gift so i may say.
And see how happy she would react. Good luck.