Will You Marry Me?

[gt_mugen]

too complicated.... the guy is in the abyss for such acts.... sa akin lng y look for another f u have someone for years na....

it would have been alright and ok to inform the gurl ahead of time so she can have a lead on what's going on....

[KASAAC]

lols... how ironic... she doesn't have any idea bout the guys whereabouts? that is so stupid..better ditch the guy...good thing they're not yet married.. a blessing in disguise...after all it's not yet too late to have a fresh start..love can never be measured by the years of relationship as lovers...she should be happy.. she's saved from the wrong guy..

I soooo agree with GOthique, maau gale nahibal-an pa sa imung friend ang binuhatan sa iyang bf before sila nagminyo. There are many fishes in the ocean wui nothing to worry, your friend deserves someone way better than her current bf.

[miss tapya]

lols... how ironic... she doesn't have any idea bout the guys whereabouts? that is so stupid..better ditch the guy...good thing they're not yet married.. a blessing in disguise...after all it's not yet too late to have a fresh start..love can never be measured by the years of relationship as lovers...she should be happy.. she's saved from the wrong guy..

He maybe the Wrong Guy as the way we see Him, through this situation, but the thing of the matter is ..To her he is the right guy but anyways, sometimes we girls tends to procrastinate, and sometimes maski nag hawag pas katag ang situation, and na rationalize na jud sa ato ang kana nga matang,mangita gihapon tag tubag nga mo pabor sa atoa.

[splendid moonlight]

The point is he cheated. I'll break up with this guy even if "mahugno" akong kalibutan. I'll look for other worlds hehe.

[masterwong]

naa mi daghan laki..im sure maka kita pa cya lain.. ahaka sd anang iyang bf gud hakpon mn tanan babae. hehehe..

unsa kaha ug mag minyo na sila murag samot gyud ang problema ky khbaw na gud cya na yabagon ng laki.. mo samot ang sungay anang laki ug dawaton pa na sa babae. magpa buotan2x pa na ron ug balik but mo balik ra na sa iyang pagka talakitok.


ug makig minyo jud tinod-anay ang laki wa na cya mangita ug lain na mapabdosan. dakong inogok ug mo sogot ang babae na makig minyo.

[elia]

Here's a quick story about my parents. My mom and dads bf/gf relationship ran for about a month when they decided to get married. That time naa si daddy ka live in nga lain and buntis pa jud ang girl. It's like iya gidaganan ang lain girl and nagpakasal sa ako mom. As years passed by chixboi lang gihapon ako daddy, martyr sa tanang martyr ako mommy. I give her my hands down. Just last year my mom was diagnosed with cancer, my dad cried. Kita jud ko kay ako gud nagbalita niya. The whole time nga na operahan ako mom ug naa sya sa hospital ako dad ang nagbantay. My mom said, tanan sala sa imo daddy ako siya gipasaylo kay nakita nako nga Love jud diay ko niya after sa tanan niyang gibuhat.

What i could say is, There is temptation. Ma girl or boy ma tintal jud. It depends on how eager we are to change. Maybe in reality the guy really love the girl. Love is a gamble. I know these days lisod na magtrust sa guys but if maybe kung kita girls mag do sa right thing, to give them our compassion, our love, our patience... then maybe the guy will realize their mistakes and change for the better.

[leo_trams]

Men can **** other women and still go home and say I Love You to his wife/GF.
Pero..
Women can not **** other men and still go home and say I Love You to her husband/BF.


Mao ni ang dako kaayo nga deperensya. hehehe
Powered by testosterone.

[Soul_Captive]

I hate it when guys give that "testosterone excuse". The brain is above everything else in a man's physical anatomy. It should guide them in making the decisions in their lives and not those hormones.

[flextime]

there are three sides to every story. his side. her side. the truth.

his side : i don't necessarily see anything wrong with the guy asking her to marry him. if his affair with the 3rd party is truly over, and he really wants to marry the girl, he has all the right to ask for her hand in marriage. but of course, it's all up to the girl to say YES ... which brings us to ...

her side : i seriously doubt if i can learn to trust the guy again if i were the girl. and even if somehow i still had feelings for him ... loving someone does not always mean that you would end up together. even if i loved him, i may still choose to leave him.

the truth : truth is ... even if the guy and girl did get married, their marriage would always have that shadow of doubt cast upon the guy's infidelity. whatever love they would share with each other would always be poisoned by the fact that he lay with another when his heart belonged to someone else. and of course, there's the guy's responsibility towards his bastard child.

@Luthienne

unsa ni? solar system nga naay other worlds? okay ka lang?

[chormatus]

That guy may have been infatuated with the third party kay distant ilang relationship sa gf which led them to an affair. Now the guy is coming back and wanting to marry the girl he [may] loves. It may be true nga love niya ang girl but there seems to be an ulterior motive here - the guy is using his gf as a escape sa 3rd party.

I have concluded that kay bisan ang third party ang mutawag sa gf nga magpakasal sila sa guy. In other words, the 3rd party is determined to get the guy to marry her and called up the girl para buwagon sila sa iyang gf. Kung magbuwag sila sa gf, this will put the guy in stalemate. The guy finds that the best alternative to get away with his responsibility of marrying the 3rd party is to marry his gf. Pero naa gihapon siya responsibility for the unborn child.

I may have a different point of view kay male man ko but the guy would like to marry his gf not because he wants to marry her but because of some ulterior motives: he is using it as a escape (although he may not admit it) from his responsibility with the 3rd party and perhaps to show his love for his gf hoping to undo the mistake he made. For now, postpone the date of marriage and make him think over it kung gusto jud sa girl i-marry iyang bf.

Just a word of caution though, ang laki nga mangita 3rd party will always have a high chances of doing it again bisan minyo na. Case in point is Elia's experience with her dad.