How BAD Is The Image Of A Kabit-Kabit?

[igloo]

maybe mao tingali naa mangabit kay wla na sila moangay sa ilahang partner,..or maybe naa sila mga problema na buwag lang ang sulbad, then wala man divorce dri sa atoa, mao mo result nlng sa uyab uyab or live-in...but then ang one party is married so mao nga matawag ug kabit kabit....

it wont be called kabit2x if u tell your partner beforehand nga dili naka gnahan magpadayon sa inyong marriage or di naka ganahan niya period. its called kabit because its supposed to be a secret nga naa kay lain babae while keeping your partner clueless of what you are doing to her. its called kabit because its cheating.
kung imo na giingnan daan imo partner, maybe maconsider pa na niya nga mangita nka lain. since there is no divorce here sa pinas, pwede raman mo mag separate. depende raman na sa inyong sabot. wla lai ilaray gud. kay kung di ka musulti, that means u still want to keep and fool your wife while you screw around with your ugly kabit.

[elaimakulai]

murag kasagaran akong nabasahan dre about kabit is referring to a woman?

what if laki ang kabit? let's say a guy hooking up with a married woman?
what's your POV?

[igloo]

i've heard of a married woman nga nangabit before. she obviously is a b****. pero i dont know about the guy... maybe he's just after her money or the tuyi. the way i'd see that guy, he's more like a gigolo.

lahi rman ang lalaki nga kabit kysa girl nga kabit, ky ang girl uban mangaway sa asawa. ang lalaki ky murag di raman mangilog ky wla man pud mawala sa ila.

[isaac95]

Q: How BAD Is The Image Of A Kabit-Kabit?

A: Verrrrrryyyyyyyyyy Baaadddddddddd......

[raizene]

hmmm disagree q ani na very bad ang kabit kabit...maybe naay rason ang tawo nganu xa nangabit, ma laki man or babaye....but becoz of our nature and community culture, ang interpretasyon sa tawo ani na buhata, dautan

[isaac95]

hmmm disagree q ani na very bad ang kabit kabit...maybe naay rason ang tawo nganu xa nangabit, ma laki man or babaye....but becoz of our nature and community culture, ang interpretasyon sa tawo ani na buhata, dautan

bisan unsa pana nga rason bro dili jud na maayo ang ingun-ana nga KABIT-KABIT...

[h3lios]

c'mon guys, don't be so naive.

look around you. ask your neighbors, friends, relatives, co-workers. illicit affairs are all around us.

in some point in your life, you will encounter this situation. the dish is served on you, and you will be lying to yourself that you won't partake it.

All men have in one point of their lives, had or have a "kabit", whether it lasts only a night or decades. some will admit it, some will not. the real wife will either know, or will never know.

get over with the fact that it is only natural for males to find multiple mates.

[al1974]

c'mon guys, don't be so naive.

look around you. ask your neighbors, friends, relatives, co-workers. illicit affairs are all around us.

in some point in your life, you will encounter this situation. the dish is served on you, and you will be lying to yourself that you won't partake it.

All men have in one point of their lives, had or have a "kabit", whether it lasts only a night or decades. some will admit it, some will not. the real wife will either know, or will never know.

get over with the fact that it is only natural for males to find multiple mates.

So, its okay for you that your sister or your daughter gets to be a kabit at one point in their life?
Are a male? So what if your wife will also do the same?

And you call it normal?

If others are doing it, even if majority is doing it, it can never make a wrong thing right.

[pigrah]

How BAD Is The Image Of A Kabit-Kabit?

well aside from being immoral, digusting. It’s deceitful, dishonest and a whole bunch of other “negative” adjectives no matter when it takes place.

We set expectations of what marriage is.
When expectations aren't met we look outside the marriage for someone who can meet them.
Every person who has had an affair there is probably a reason to justify it, in their eyes. sa bisaya, ngita jud ug lusot.

[isaac95]

So, its okay for you that your sister or your daughter gets to be a kabit at one point in their life?
Are a male? So what if your wife will also do the same?

And you call it normal?

If others are doing it, even if majority is doing it, it can never make a wrong thing right.

I agree on this!

your actually right!