it hurts jud na ang ibaylo ta sa gay... but i thnk it would hurt more if you give in to your feelings and later on you'll find him in the arms of his wife.. don't be such a bitch to the wife. moabot ra na ang guy na para sa imo.. even if he shows signs na he likes you a bit, restrain yourself he already has a wife. whatever kakulangan sa iya wife the fact nga iya na gpakaslan that is more than enough reason for you to back up. if you want to help him, just be his friend... no more... no less..