I said I love you but I lied and Why?

[dexterdal]

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faetah ani bai dex story ni mam n'gel oist... mabasa ta ni sa ako uyab ba para maka mata sad, she will be leaving this coming june, mura pud ug the same ni mam n'gel murag na buya ra, heheheehe but its ok for me,anyways the decision is there naman, and para man sad to sa iyang family and maybe para pud sa iyaha, happy na ko if kita nako sya na successful.. although sakit ayo bro oi,,,,, waaaaaaah! na open hnuon problem dire dah! daghan man beer sa boss grill if ever... hehehe...

hilig man gud ta said i love you but i lied mao na ni cguro karma

hahahaha, bai atay kaayo imong love life d ay bai, basin ig kita nato sa boss grill balik mag emote ka d2 ha? hahahahahaha, ayaw lang palabi ug inom para dli kaayo halata. hehehehhe. btaw bai akong advise nimo is fight for her if she's worth it

[Jpacs29]

i really love her so much man thats why, give way sa ko kayi dont want man na akoy makaguba sa iyang dreams for her family, if ever kami thank God but if dili thanks ra gihapon, isog kaayo manulti ba waaaah hilak na diay to deep inside,,,,, hay gugma..

said i love you but subra pa diay to sa gugma........ makabuang!Â*

[ryan22]

ingon ana gyud na ang gugma bai GIATAY!

[ryan22]

@ n`gel paeta pud ana nga situation mam oi..kiwaw au mag tupad ka ug slip imo husband nya dili d i ka ganahan?

pakitang tao ra mo cge mam?

[n`gel]

I cannot say I don't love him sad nuon, I just don't love him that much. Dili pwede pakamatyan nga gugma ba. Naa gyuy kalainan when it comes to that gyud. Lahi gyud kung inlove gyud ka super sa imo pares. I have to admit oftentimes I try to avoid that situation gani. I sleep more often with my baby girl than in our bedroom. Good excuse though kay gamay paman amo babies and they need me especially akong eldest kay she stayed in Cebu for 5 months and pagbalik diri naanad naay tapad. Dili man sad nuon hell ako life or super duper paet gyud kaayo, I don't put it in my mind baya. But... kung magminyo naman lang gani... nindot gyud tong genuine gyud nga love.

To add to that, anha raman sad ko maglagot niya ug maglagot ko. When he does or doesn't do things my way. Kung okay lang, okay raman sad mi. Makaana ko dili gyud lawm nga gugma akong gibati mura'g conditional kaayo ba. Basta he does things my way we're fine, if not ma remind ko nga dili man gani ko inlove gyud niya. And he knows that baya. He knows I don't love him as much as he does me. I know kung buot gyud huna-hunaon paet gyud, pero lisud sad kaayo magsige nalang ko kaguol ana di ba? Ma depress unya ko. So, I'm trying to be fine and have a normal life.

There are other situations baya like kanang dugay na kaayo minyo, mga tigulang na, but they still live and sleep on one bed pero dili na sila ingon ato sa una ka inlove. Akong tita ug tito ingon ana sila, halus magbungol pero usa ra gihapon sila ka kwarto. Weird kaayo ba, I guess they're doing it for their children nalang. And, tungod sad kay walay divorce sa atoa and catholics gyud sila. That no matter how uncolorful na ilang marriage they still hang on to their marriage. They probably say "I love you" in front of their kids but they don't really mean it anymore.

[Jpacs29]

@ n`gel paeta pud ana nga situation mam oi..kiwaw au mag tupad ka ug slip imo husband nya dili d i ka ganahan?

pakitang tao ra mo cge mam?

bro dont say pakitang tao ra kay we dont know what really the situation is, there are many valid reasons behind those situations na di gyud na to maingon nga ginusto nato ni...

but anyways, ok naman..... go on na ta sa topic oist..... Â*

Said i love you.... but i lied

[n`gel]

Bitaw, let's move on na from me oist. Let's talk about the why's. Ngano kinahanglan man mamakak sa tinuod nga gibati? Lain lain man gyud situations but... it will be a point for good discussion. Ma uyab man or ma minyo na.

Don't we think saying "I love you" to its true meaning is sweet and romantic? Myself I miss being truly inlove na gani. Tehehe. My time has pass though. I say "I love you" to my mom pero I don't mean it sad.

[jugs_06]

@n'gel: madam angel matay lisud jud tnuod imo situation. just hang in there, you have to learn how to sacrifice for the sake of your baby.. saon ta man, nana man jud na.. hehe.. believe it or not.. as much as you want to change things for the betterment of yourself, you can't really say that your baby would benefit if you leave ur husband. you may not be as happy as you want to. but at least you got ur baby with you knowing that she/he has a father to grow up with.. that's what's important.

[Jpacs29]

@jugs_06

naka ingon na ba ka i love you pero you never do diay?

[jugs_06]

honestly, i think in terms of mga serious2x.. wala pa tngali.. pero counted ba ang mga fling2x sa imo question? kay kung inlove2x lang like infatuation thingy, murag ka daghan na.. hehehe..