Let me be the One to BREAK it up so you wont have to make EXCUSES

[ierolennail]

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@ TS: you did the right thing than to pretend that you don't mind it at all...broken promises are crap but it will give us time to think if his worth it or we deserve them ba jud...

[l_a_t_i_k_a]

@ TS: you did the right thing than to pretend that you don't mind it at all...broken promises are crap but it will give us time to think if his worth it or we deserve them ba jud...

yeah thanks sis.. I am open to compromising once more but I am not willing to be trampled on... i am so jaded na by his excuses.. i have had enough

how about you guys out there? naka sulay namo ani??

[vahnhelsing]

usaon paghibalo if offline or online ba latika?
try ko ana beh..checkon to nako ako.a..

[exotic_meh123]

of course iv considered things na,.alot of things.. but grabeh wala na jud polos if cge lang ko consider... puno na ako listahan sa iya mga promises and excuses..
la na mi communication over a month now..
last call niya was june 25th, prior to that, he has not called me for a month pod.
excuse nya? naguba iya sim and it took him quite a while to have his plan approved..hmmm??
grabe la jud xa kahulam ug cell para pag inform lang ta nako if buhi pa xa..
daghan jud au other than a not constant communication..
napai masakpan nako when i went OL and he was invisible, never said a thing to me...
naa nman ron website nga mahibaw an nimo if online ba offline or invisible lang.. hehe sakspan

so after st0ps and starts... I finally broke up with him.. and taking steps forward... baby steps

naa raman diay na...he dnt desrve u...kaw ray masakitan...daghan pa moabot na guy,,,kasuway ko ana...nd wala nasad jud ko kay kapoy ako ray gitunto...time came ni text sya balik..ako napud ni ignore nya...

[l_a_t_i_k_a]

usaon paghibalo if offline or online ba latika?
try ko ana beh..checkon to nako ako.a..

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visit this link... type the ym id and whoala!
ul know if shes online offline or even just invisible

[l_a_t_i_k_a]

we had a good break up man pod,, we explained, exchanged sorrys
and gave each other best wishes.. im happy we finally had that chance to say good bye..cuz
the most painful good byes are the ones that was never spoken. its a unanimous
decision to end the relationship.. so were better off as friends now..

[dropdeadgorgeous]

good luck sis! i know you can get by....

as for me, i perfectly can relate to this!
i thought perfect natoh aqoeng last bf... i mean, he was someone i could consider nga tarungon jud nqoe buh.. but then nilarga xa outside cebu... lesser na ang frequency sa communication kai busy na daw xa.. ny to the point nga aqoe nalai nangitag way para maka communicate niya.. useless ra japun!
until such time nga i told him i'm dating someone else (bisag wala gud!) para at least kung love qoe niya iya qoe ipaglaban buh.. wa man jud! i loosed hope, gipugos nqoe xa magbuwag nalang mi over the phone..

[blueangel_88]

Have you been in this kind of situation where, ikaw nalang ang nakigbuwag, kay daghan na xa promises nga na failed and u felt he fell out of love and yet he keeps on giving you excuses,. nga busy, or naay meeting, or love paka nya but busy xa dli ka text or tawag nimo for a couple of days
or naay gilakaw blah blah blah,... then the time came na you have to end the relationship tho u
still love him.

share ur stories....

ana man na ang ubang guys, bisag klaro na kaayo gud nga na fall out of love, daghan pa jud kaayo pasangil.. sakto jud imo gibuhat sis

[cp103]

thanks pael... i know i did the right thing...
its for him to be happy and for me to find my happiness..
ni enroll ko ug cooking lessons karon to keep
myself busy...

culinary skul sis or short term classes lang? share some of ur recipes beh, hehehehe...

KUDOS on accepting the fact nga he is being a jerk, no offense lang sa imo coz i know you still love him. I just hope naa jud mo proper closure pra dili pud ka niya ma.blame.

I have to admit that i myself have been a jerk before as well, so i know far too well, the ins and outs of guys who are playing around, especially if its a long distance relationship. It could be he found another girl, or he's so busy playing w/ different girls at a time, either way, bottomline is, he is definitely fooling around, you can bet on that.

Just be sure that your dead set about letting him go na jud, kay basin maka.talk lang mo just even once, wala na, lanay na ka, libog na pud ka unsa imo buhaton, back to zero na pud ka ani. Basta for now, take things slow lang usa and enjoy your life w/o him.

That's all for now sis, and hope to get some of you recipes. hehehehe

[l_a_t_i_k_a]

@ dropdeadgorgeous : thanks sis huh.. i know you too could move on, or you have already moved on..
i think what you did was right sad.. bisan claro kaau cla na fell out of love na nato, daghan japon excuses.. why lead on, when the love has gone? they could just talk it to our face and tell us that
theyr dumping us nah dba.. mas ok cguro nah.. but anyway, nag break nami thru chat, and he is now
here in cebu. the good thing is were friends.