I said I love you but I lied and Why?

[n`gel]

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Me I say that almost everyday to my husband. Teheh. I love you too bisan not as much as he loves me para lang mahilom.

[kyuusai]

mao na taka lang ug labay sa i love you.. labay diri labay didto... way klaro!!.. hehe..

[dexterdal]

OT

n`gel : taga-e ko penpal na puti, babae. hehehehe

[Jpacs29]

OT

n`gel : taga-e ko penpal na puti, babae. hehehehe

ingni sad dayon bro, I love you but i lied

[n`gel]

Oh no dong, you don't wanna be there at all. Needless to say but it wasn't my decision baya in the first place, binuya baya ko. It's not a happy life I tell you. But at least, pwede pa ko'g divorce. Yaw lang sa ron, siguraduon lang gyud usa. So I'll still say I love you too, bahala'g bakak. Para lang peaceful ang pamuyo.

[Jpacs29]

Oh no dong, you don't wanna be there at all. Needless to say but it wasn't my decision baya in the first place, binuya baya ko. It's not a happy life I tell you. But at least, pwede pa ko'g divorce. Yaw lang sa ron, siguraduon lang gyud usa. So I'll still say I love you too, bahala'g bakak. Para lang peaceful ang pamuyo.

bitaw mam but if maiwasan mag devorce ayaw nalang, maybe makat-on gyud ka na higugmaon sya

and someday youll goin to say na mam yes i love you and i really do, hehehe

[n`gel]

Well that's one thing that I've realized gyud Jpacs... basta dili gyud nimo love dili gyud. In fact, gamayng bikil wa na threaten na ko ug divorce. Dili ko mounong sa marriage ba... dili ko mo sakripisyo. Demand gyud gud ko ug babysitter bisan mahal au $400/week. Kung love pa gyud naku ako bana ako agwantahon bantay bata ako ra usa uy, amo tigumon among kwarta. Pero... tungod kay dili kaayo... gara sad ko spoiled sad nuon kaayo ko. Ug moingon ko mouli ko'g Pilipinas, uli gyud di pwede balibaran. I know this marriage won't last gyud... just hangin on ba... sakay-sakay.. hulat nga basin ma inlove ra gyud ko. Pero hapit na nag 2 years wala man gihapon. Although dili mi mag-away ha, peaceful kaayo amo life, dili man sad gud kaayo naku ibig.deal nga dili ko gugmaan gud... I'm just living my married life peacefully. Unless... ug naa gyud koy reklamo niya. He tries very hard to please me man sad gud.

I'm not scared to leave baya, maluoy lang ko. And.. naa man gud mi baby.. mao ni dili unta inlove noh? Nya naa baby. Saon taman uy gusto gyud sa Ginoo makaanak mi. And.. as of now wala pa ko work.. wala ko kwarta.. lisud ibiya ug sayon-sayon. Maluoy sad ko sa amo baby kay suod kaayo sa iya daddy as in. Maabot na gani from work.. singgit dayon "dadddy"... every morning when she wakes up she would knock at our bedroom door and call for her daddy. She's a year old and 3 months pa. That's another thing.

But everybody wants to be happy baya. My question is.. can I last this kind of life nga dili gyud ko ingon ana ka happy? I don't think I will. One day I'm sure I'll leave gyud. Mao dili ko pakasal ug simbahan usa.

[dexterdal]

angel give it time. maybe in time you'll learn to love and appreciate your husband.

[Jpacs29]

faetah ani bai dex story ni mam n'gel oist... mabasa ta ni sa ako uyab ba para maka mata sad, she will be leaving this coming june, mura pud ug the same ni mam n'gel murag na buya ra, heheheehe but its ok for me,anyways the decision is there naman, and para man sad to sa iyang family and maybe para pud sa iyaha, happy na ko if kita nako sya na successful.. although sakit ayo bro oi,,,,, waaaaaaah! na open hnuon problem dire dah! daghan man beer sa boss grill if ever... hehehe...

hilig man gud ta said i love you but i lied mao na ni cguro karma

[n`gel]

Jpacs... you know unsa ako isulti nimo? Fight for her gyud. I bet you one day she'll regret it. Like me, ako gipalabi ako mama instead of my own happiness awa ko ron basul. I had a bf too... and now... he's happy I'm not. Ang ka deperensya lang naku kay manggiluluy-on lang gyud ko sa ako mama, masakiton kuno siya heart and all. Now I realized... marriage means lifetime na gyud nga sacrifice. Gipadali-dali ko ug ari sa US sa ako mama, then after a year nga naminyo ko, naapprove akong immigrant visa petition sa ako mom kay dugay naman siya diri. Nakaana lagi ko, sus ug nag sinelfish lang ta ko, happy unta ko karon and makaari ra gyud unta ko gihapon sa US immigrant pa. Pero.. humana man wa nakuy mahimo. Although wala pa may available nga visa number sa katong approved immigrant petition sa ako mama, dungan man mis akong kuya. Kahuna-huna lagi ko sa una nga makigdivorce, uli sa Pilipinas, then hulaton na nga interview kay divorced is still considered single man. Imagine sa ako fiance visa conditional resident ko until 2 more years... kung mag divorce ko papaulion ko pnas. While kung mosulod kog immigrant visa automatic naku resident naa na dayon ko green card. Oplok kaayo sa? Teheh... pero I'm a person man gud nga modala-dala ra ug problema. In fact when I was still there before I left for the US mura ra kog wala, pero deep inside diay I didn't really wanna do that.

I hope your gf will weigh things gyud. Tell her to think of herself sad. Kay dili gyud malalim du. Magbasul gyud na siya.