saying sorry and doing everything you can just to show her how sorry you are and that you want her back is good, but it will never work if she doesn't want to hear you out, and from what you've been telling us, she is obviously playing hard to get. You might be thinking that your doing everything just to win her back, but usually, it's the opposite of what where thinking that is actually happening, you can see for yourself that everything your doing is being ignored, that just goes to show that she hasn't seen what see wants to be seen, and you really have to be receptive of what she really wants you to do if you really want her back. I know your going to say that you love her and that she is your life, but it's so much easier to say it but really hard to do. The reason that its really hard to do coz it entails changes w/in ourself that will benefit the relationship.
Ask lang ko bro, do you know the reason why suko xa nimo? kay basin the thing that your thinking isn't exactly the reason that's pissing her off coz it might be something that you would have never thought about? 2ndly, 2 years nman jud mo, wala pa jud day ka kaila sa imo gf kung unsa xa klasi nga tao?
The reason i asked the 1st question bro kay basin sa cg nimo sorry did2 sa iyaha, wala ka idea nga ang imo gpangayo na sorry sa iya dili day mao, w/c would cause her to be upset even more coz your being insensitive, add the fact nga kulit pa jud au ka. Trust me bro, 2 things that i woman hates in a man more than anything is 1. being insensitive, and 2. being makulit. I know a lot of you girls out there would agree to these to things.
The reason i asked the 2nd question is this, xaru nman sad sa kadugay na ninyo, wala jud kay idea kung asa ang mga kiliti sa imo gf? kung unsa ang mga butang nga dili niya ganahan sa imo? obviously, you still need to learn a lot about your gf bro, coz if you knew things about her, you should have been able to conquer her anger na unta. I hope wala ka malain sa ako mga gpang.ingon nako nimo bro ha. I'm just pointing out facts lang. Ani man gud ni ang analogy sa 2nd question nako bro. Kung ikaw boxer ka, would you just randomly throw punches at your enemy hoping that it will make the enemy weak? or would you rather find your enemy's weak spot and focus on that weak spot and give it your all in hitting that weak spot?I'm pretty sure you got my point nah, hopefully.
Having said all that, I'm pretty sure you have an idea na on what to do. Now whatever it is that your thinking of doing, think about this as well... you may be able to say a lot of things to let her know that your sorry, you could buy her a lot of things as a symbol that your really sorry, but it can only do so much. Instead try to think back about all those times that you argued w/ her, was there anything about what she said that you might be able to change in yourself, maybe a personality that you have that she hopes that will change for the better.
Speaking of better, don't think of all those times nga ng.away mo as something negative bro, instead, think of all of it as something of a chance for you to change for the better, or maybe even the best. Through those arguements that you had w/ her, you will know all the things that you need to learn about her, things that you need to know about her for you to have a better chance of handling the relationship better.
Lastly bro,just like what other istoryans have shared to you, give her and yourself some breathing space,pra pud naa xa time nga mukalma,and pra pud makathink xa ug tarong pra makita niya imo effort,instead of just pestering her all the time nga dili jud nuon xa mukalma ana, and puro lng jud nuon bati iya makita dra nimo pirmi. but not so much space pud ha nga she would think nga wala na pud kay pakabana ur care sa iya pud. You know what, i have a better idea, why don't you try this. So aside from the fact nga mag self personality enchancement ka bro, kay mutxt jud ka niya everyday, and try not to text telling her over and over that your sorry and that guol kaayo ka and stuff, but rather, text her what you have been doing so far during the course of the day, what has been happening, mga small talk lang gud, just to let her know kung asa ka, and nag.unsa ka. but please jud bro, avoid jud nang kuliton nimo xa nga mag.sorry ka, mag.ask ka nga pasayluon ka. nya bahala bro ug dili xa mu.reply, as long as nagpahibalo lang ka niya na naa pakay pakabana niya then that's it. once in a while, text her pud that you miss her and that you love her no matter what.
I don't know how long it's gonna take but then again, slowly and surely, you can win her back jud bro. You just have to learn to be patient, and learn what are the things that can make or break your gf.
asus, ayaw na pag-sad2x bro
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