How important is TRUST in a relationship?

[paumart]

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TRUST is very important in the relationship, .... if a relationship dont have TRUST It sems your relationship is in FRENZY. Means cool, unhot... Ü or maybe you can have booth.. hehehehe

[tin2x_angel]

without trust .. cguro kamong duha , nag duda na with each other!!! and makahimo ug maot na mga judgments .. murag tru!!! :P

[theused]

TRUST is very important in the relationship, .... if a relationship dont have TRUST It sems your relationship is in FRENZY. Means cool, unhot... Ü or maybe you can have booth.. hehehehe

lahi sad ni iyaha hehe,...


TRUST - salig ka
FRENZY - ur juz having fun
SENSATION - ur juz playing with emotions..

hehe

[riansuzini]

It hurts me so much knowing that with a petty negative sit like that, you were goin' ballistic like hell. I can't tell you much 'cause you refuse to let me. D*mn all these mistrust thingees that roam inside your bare mind. So bare that it couldn't even feel the sensitivity of the situation. It hurts me more than others could see how I went out to catch an air to breathe.

Days could pass by so slow and so d*mn painful for me yet patience is all I could give. No matter how hard it could get, something's about to come in the end. Just please... please don't tell me to get lost that easy. It might hit you back harder than you'd thought and the deeds left undone and those words left unsaid could easily be forgotten then. It's a matter of trusting me and knowing I could never give such a sarcastic mistrust like the one you gave me.

Thanks for hurting me. It did help me a lot growing up so fast in such a short time. It did make me realize that life is not worthwhile crying. Waiting leaves itself in lexicons. Too many lexicons yet too few to think the real true meaning of "waiting". Yet I'll still prove t myself that I could still do something to take something I don't want to lose but would want to let me lose it.

I did my part. Now it's yours to do your own - before it's too late....

[naj ice]

@TS I symphatize you. Hope this helps. : (

1. You really do need to talk to him about it and how it hurts your feelings that he isn't able to trust you like that. Give him reasons why you would never break his trust. Ask him to give reasons why he would never break your trust.

2. If he's unable or unwilling to trust, you may have to decide if he's worth staying with. Lack of trust would likely be the ultimate downfall of the relationship. Let him know that he is going to ruin the relationship with his jealousy. If someone wronged him in the past, it's unfair for you to be punished for that.

3. He is obviously insecure and most likely doing some of the things he accuses you of. If he doesn't come clean or realize your faithful, you need to MOVE ON!

@TS its not worth it because at the end of the day hes basically pushing you into cheating. sit down and talk to him about how you feel, how it makes you feel that you are constantly being accused...The relationship was only one sided, and I see the point he's trying to control you ,It was so dysfunctional .He is not trying to make things better or to improve the relationship. Stop trying to make someone be something they are not. Its not worth your time and tears. You need to find someone who will love you and trust you. Relationship does not work without TRUST. It's true that putting trust in someone takes time but isn't 4 years or more enough to at least start stopping those childish acts and words on you.

[GOthique]

+++ @ TS... I've been there... always remember that "THINKERS ARE DOERS" .... just be strong.. just do ur part and let him do his... one more thing.. just don't you ever... ever beg.. it's a big No..No to us girls...besides it's not yet the end of the world.. you know what I did.. I just focus with my goals in life.. don't you forget that he's not the one who's there for you.. you have your mom...ur friends.. u have me..don't u ever think he's ur everything.. ur world...now I'm very much happy and contented with my life.. just take it easy..coz only fools rushed in...

[riansuzini]

== it's not easy jud guys.. gisakitan jud ko'g maau.. the way he pushed me away.. tapos gamay ra kaau to nga thing.. kulang nalang mo luhod ko sa iya atubangan..

[riansuzini]

== I'm strong now. I realized I can't be "good" all the time..

[eilrach]

keep it up..

[maitoots]

stay strong the important thing is you have learned your lessons..
there really is no assurance that you can never be hurt again
but the next time you'll know what to do and what to think first.
smile.. life is so wonderful it's not even worth crying over spilled milk