When Someone asks for "Privacy"....

[AMD_infinium05]

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in a romantic/intimate relationship, PRIVACY IS A PREVILEDGE AND NOT A RIGHT.

you have my sentiments bro, and I believe that the only time that a gf/bf should have his/her privacy is when he/she is in the "john" doing his/her thing. aside from that, you have the right to intrude if you feel that their is something fishy going on. but make sure though that you don't make it a habit coz you would be depriving the person of their own "space", some breathing space.

and besides, if their is nothing to hide, why should she be worried about her privacy, and another thing, it's part of the relationship that you must know each other very well if you need to have a long lasting harmonious relationship.

Bro, if your girl is asking that, talk to her and make her understand why your doing that. I just hope your girl is not the immature and selfish type, coz if she is, you will have a hard time dealing w/ her about it. Goodluck bro.

we already broke up... she asked for her freedom........ never jud ko na.inlove sa lain girl but sya ra jud... lahi ra jud akong pagtan.aw sa iya... she dont understand some things nga akong gbuhat sa iyaha.

[UtOkbOlinAO]

when someone ask for his/her privacy then mao nay gitawag nga "SALAMAT nalang sa TANAN nimong gibuhat para nako. ADIOS ADORADA PATRIATA". its bad pero its the truth

[babypaupau]

para nako lng, even if you are in a relationship with someone, you are still different persons.you still lead separate lives. its not so much about trust and/or doubt. its respect for the most part.

specially with phones, and emails and other personal things. my hubby and i have been together for almost 5 yrs and we never had trust issues. we live by the rule " you're old enough to know what is right and wrong." if i see his phone lying around, i dont meddle with it and vice versa.

even siguro ako,i would be taken aback if my partner would tell me he wants privacy. i guess depende na sya sa inyong level of maturity, level of commitment and what stage ur relationship is into. not to mention personalities.

[AMD_infinium05]

para nako lng, even if you are in a relationship with someone, you are still different persons.you still lead separate lives. its not so much about trust and/or doubt. its respect for the most part.

specially with phones, and emails and other personal things. my hubby and i have been together for almost 5 yrs and we never had trust issues. we live by the rule " you're old enough to know what is right and wrong." if i see his phone lying around, i dont meddle with it and vice versa.

even siguro ako,i would be taken aback if my partner would tell me he wants privacy. i guess depende na sya sa inyong level of maturity, level of commitment and what stage ur relationship is into. not to mention personalities.

makes sense tooo.. thanks. but what happened to me was different, there were times your statement is true.. naa pud situations nga it can't be applied, we humans have this special feeling, just by that we can tell something is going on.

[babypaupau]

makes sense tooo.. thanks. but what happened to me was different, there were times your statement is true.. naa pud situations nga it can't be applied, we humans have this special feeling, just by that we can tell something is going on.

ur right, depends upon the situation and personalities of the parties involved. ikaw as the significant other, you would actually feel if there's something going on. the other person need not tell you if ur only sensitive to your gut feeling. i can attest to this one jud, if you feel that something is wrong. chances are, something really IS wrong. then again, open communication is key.

[Tirong-say]

If you are already married then I think it is a serious problem,pero kung uyab pa lang there should be still a small space pa between you and her,she always makes reservations,IMHO they will always have that notion nga what if dili mo magdayon and you already know her private secrets or private details,yes there is admiration and perhaps love sa manag-uyab but trusting your private life is still dobious pa na,even kitang mga lalaki we also have our own reservations.I think normal ra tingali na.

[AMD_infinium05]

I think she IS NOT like that..... Wala ko makaila niya ana nga way...

i love her so much... so much.......

[Fern]

+++ tsk..tsk.. tsk.. she's implying that there's something wrong w/ ur relationship... communincation is really important..y don't u ask her dude.

like that works!

you should interrogate and torture her.... pina CIA style

[GOthique]

like that works!

you should interrogate and torture her.... pina CIA style

++ hahaha.. that's barbaric... mmm maybe u'll just have to accept the fact that she's falling out of love... move on TS.. don't linger with unrequited love...Everyone of us deserves to be happy