I need to understand

[xxSTARLIGHT]

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common na kaau na sa katiLingban imong husband. dghan kau nagkatag ana niLa.
ikaw sis, do you think you'll be happy staying with him for the next long years of your life?

[chad_tukes]

wow this is kinda messed up.

reminds me of Jerry Springer.

[yvonne6]

thanks kaau sa tanan ni reply diri. di man siguro siya maka ingon nga ma pride kaau ko or wala ko mohatag enough chance niya to be better. infact, na annoy naman gani siya sa akong pag sige ug tambag niya nga sa panahon karon, only very few people values family a lot and that our son would bear the consequences of a broken family. para niya, k ra kaau nga messed up ang family, modaku raman daw ang bata. wala man gud siya mahibalo kay dili man siya gikan sa broken family. but just like most of u, i feel this is just more than enough

[francoise07]

This is common thing for women on irresponsible boys.
They always hope that that boy will change
and her love will bring out the best of him.

The reality is--in a relationship--- boys always grew worse.
If he smokes, he will become a chain smoker.

If he gambles, he becomes addicted to it
to a point that he will steal just to have money for gambling.

If he drinks, he will become an alcoholic as he grows old.

If he womanize, he will do it more and more.

If he plays online games,
he will be addicted to it more
to a point that nothing in his life is more important
than playing online games with friends.

He is a hopeless case.
You will wish you never knew him at all.

fyi: ds oNly applies oN irresp0nsble boys..u cn sm0ke, gamble, drnk, w0manze nd do evrythng, as l0ng as ul nver f0rget wts ur duties nd resp0nsbilities w ur family..its ok 2 do ds thngs n m0derati0n, 2much of evrythng wl f**k up ur life..

[keeper_of _the_key]

yeah there people out there can manage their hobbies,family,vice,etc..
you don't need to stop thing what makes you happy as long as you know the limit and priority.
in your case it seems that it not good and not balance.you will be
in unhealthy lifestyle move out.

[Maikeru]

This is common thing for women on irresponsible boys.
They always hope that that boy will change
and her love will bring out the best of him.

The reality is--in a relationship--- boys always grew worse.
If he smokes, he will become a chain smoker.

If he gambles, he becomes addicted to it
to a point that he will steal just to have money for gambling.

If he drinks, he will become an alcoholic as he grows old.

If he womanize, he will do it more and more.

If he plays online games,
he will be addicted to it more
to a point that nothing in his life is more important
than playing online games with friends.

He is a hopeless case.
You will wish you never knew him at all.

Mostly likely that guy is a jerk. But will disagree with the bolded green text. There is always a chance to change. After I saw 1 friend who changed from worst to better, I couldn't say anymore that "boys always grew worse".

[KASAAC]

no sis, I don't think your man deserve more chances, you gave your best but if he doesn't see and appreciate it, back off...its time for you to take good care of yourself and the child...
he is very irresponsible sis let him be alone just like what other istoryans here are advising you...let time passes by until he realizes your worth for now, I guess you need to move out, don't tell him of your plans, its best if secretly you move out and tell your common friends not to let him know or even his family

[maitoots]

from my point of view, i think you have given him enough chances na to last his lifetime.. inutil ni tawhana sis uy. give yourself the worth you deserve. leave him alone and yes i think it's better for the kid not to see hs dad for now, kay ing dako sa baby mo ask ra na n f that time comes na be honest pd to your kid. sometimes, life is better off without the man usahay hasol kaau ni cla oi, labad sa ulo ba

[prettybabyandi]

ka-sad pud ani nga situation sis oi pero u know what, i think it would be better not only for u but for ur son also to be without ur boyfriend nlng kung ing ana lng diay sya.. gkan na mismo nimu na he's an immature and irresponsible person ever since na bag-o pamu.. and til now wa ghapun sya mu-change and instead, nisamot pa hinuon cya.. wa na nah cyay hope na mu-change sis..though some do, sad to say most irresponsible persons grow old still irresponsible.. u gave him enough time already to prove himself worthy of u and ur baby but wala syay gbuhat.. so he's not worthy of ur love at all.. i know nglibog ka coz u dont want to be a single parent but hey, there's a positive side of being single.. at least, anak nlng nimu imung badlungon kaysa pun-an pka sa amahan na badlungonon pud kaaayo..doble na ang sakit sa imung ulo dba? pasagdihi nlng na cya sis..let him live on his own para mkalearn cya what life is being alone....everything will be ok.....God bless

[GOSPELofROCH]

i think he is trying to escape his responsibilities as a father and husband but couldn't say it to you.

what a useless person, bya-e!