Clingy, Manipulative and a Nagger Boyfriend: What to do?

[treize]

his just being paranoid, in order to stop him from being paranoid is that you have to break up with him, let him think your tired of him and its hopeless that you cant take his actions anymore. try this for 1 week until he apologize for every single word he uttered to u. that's the only medicine for that. you have to hurt his feelings so that he will realize that his wrong. ayaw pa dala sa kamingaw.

[technowar]

I don't treat my friends as special Sometimes, naa say nindot mabuhat ang white lies, samot na if naa kay curfew. Hahhaa

[emjee17]

his just being paranoid, in order to stop him from being paranoid is that you have to break up with him, let him think your tired of him and its hopeless that you cant take his actions anymore. try this for 1 week until he apologize for every single word he uttered to u. that's the only medicine for that. you have to hurt his feelings so that he will realize that his wrong. ayaw pa dala sa kamingaw.

I've broken up with him last tuesday then pag thursday i decided to give him the last chance.. I felt somehow relieved and now quite contented kay he changed (though not totally pa kay bag-ohay pa mang buwag, wa pa ko kahibaw in the next few weeks or months). he knows this is really the last, kay if mao lang gihapon, aw buwag na jud totally.

I can't say nga happy ko nga ga balik mi, NOT YET. Malipay ra ko kung naa juy permanenting kausaban. Pero i appreciate his efforts.

[treize]

well that's a good thing, the fact is that men are much weaker than women when it comes to emotional things, and i think you're much stronger than him in this kind of thing.

[technowar]

At least nkakita na ka sa iyang efforts. Credits to his efforts, ma'am. Give him some time.

[emjee17]

the fact is that men are much weaker than women when it comes to emotional things

> Is that so? I thought it' s the other way around?

and i think you're much stronger than him in this kind of thing.

> hmm, i wouldn't say nga ingon ana ko ka strong, kay if magpakita ko niya nga mag hilak2 or things like that, feel man gud nako naa pa siyay chance or something like that. I tried my very best nga di jud mu hilak ug magpa ka manhid kunuhay in front of him. diay to, if wala na siya, diha ra mugawas ang akong hidden emotions.

At least nkakita na ka sa iyang efforts. Credits to his efforts, ma'am. Give him some time.

> pirmi man nako makita nag iyang efforts sir. (hehe) ug karun ra pud siya ni tuda ug effort.. mas naka ingon pa gud ko nga maayo pa diay nga mag buwag mi kay kuhaon pa kos akong room, dili kaayo magpalabi ug duwa og dota, but-an pa kaayo. Mura bag "you never know what you have until you lose it.."

[treize]

yes indeed you just dont know that. cause men dont want to see people that they are weak that they are in pain, those people who committed suicide most of them are men remember that. it's a fact that men are much weaker than women.

[technowar]

Ayaw padala ma'am, kay basin karon ra na. Wa pa ni gawas ang "true colors" bah. Hehehe Ayaw lang limot sa inyo sabot, ma'am kay basin mabalik ra gihapon ang nahitabo in the long run.

[hunt99]

Hi! This is actually my first thread. Naa jud koy dilemma aning akong uyab and i hope nga tabangan ko ninyu. Please!

Last friday lang, nananghid kong mu adto ko sa ayala kay magbirthday akong amigang bayot ngadto sa Casa Verde. Then mga 8 ko ma uli or posible mga 9 naang pinakadugay.. Nisugot siya with the following conditions: 1) way laki dapat and 2) di ko magpalabi ug kiat.

Now, nanunga akong mga amiga mga 7 na then naka-kaun mi sa Casa Verde mga 8:10 na kay pwerti jud daghanang tao. Ang akong sala is, wala ko ka text niya nga nadugay mi ug eat kay mao ni mao na.

Karun, mga 8:45 ni text na siya nga aha na daw ko? Reply sad kog naa pa ko ayala, wala pa mi nahuman ug eat. Reply niya is "why naa pa man ka ayala? what time na man? abi kog nana kas inyu?"

Wa ko kasabots akong gibati, mura kog na pikon nga ga lagot nga na irita sa iyang gi text. Wala pa gud ko nahuman ug kaon then na dugay kog reply, ga sige na ug missed call, ga sige na ug text. Kinsa may dili mapungot ana?

Now, on the way home, ga sige na mig lalis sa text. Pero ni explain ko niya why dugay mi nakakaun, karun gi ingnan kog: "why kinahanglan pa man nga ara kas ayala mu kaon?? igo lang diya ka mu ara hatag sa imung gift then uli ka, kay ga expect kong sayo ka ma uli kay mao man imung pananghid.."

Nisamot jud kog kasapot aning iyang tubag. Then naa pa siyay daghang complaints like "wa man lang ganeh ka nagpa unli pag ingon na kog nagpa unli ko.." "gikalimtan man lang ganeh nimu ang dvd" (w/c is supposedly akong kuhaon niya kay mu borrow unta ko).

Ang naa sa akong huna-huna: "why naabot naman ta anang mga butanga? daghan ganeng sideline nga issues? Minor issues that is. Pwede mu focus ta sa atong unang issue."

9:30 pm ko naabot sa amo, diba 9 pa man na? I mean, within 9pm pa? Suko or nalain na siya why ingon ana nakong orasa naabot which is mao akong pananghid nga mga 9 ang pinakadugay. Ang gusto niya 9 impunto siguro nana kos amo.

Guys, what man ni? clingy? manipulative? nagger? I need your opinions.
Girls? I need your help.

am you know sis am bisan laki ko ha kasagaran baya mag binoang sa babae laki baya gyud pero di tanan laki ing-ana ky ako gani past reverse ako moy nasakitan kaayo but mo forgive man gyud ko and past is past most important is the present even single na lang ta forever basta malipay ta labi pa ika duha nani nakong kinabuhi ky dapat dead naman ko onya kasagaran sad sa babae pili-an gyud ang appearance man gud tan-awon og una mas maayo gyud inner beauty tan-awon og una pero sad noon di man tanan babae ing-ana cause actually getting into a seryos relationship both must love, care , comfort, help, trust, respect, honest and both has good attitudes, moves and style og dili na pang lingaw seryos na gyud na tinarong magkasinabot mong duha og malipayon mo onya ayaw gyud mog buhat anang *** onya nalang og minyo na mo


am in your problem sis there are many reasons pede na kuwang siyag pag salig nimo or pede sad na na-a siyay nahibaw-an na binuhatan nimo pede sad na tonogod sa pinangga kaayo ka niya mao ng morag makuyawan siya mao ngm angita gyud na siyan imo labi pa babae gud ka ako pa nimo sis talk to him seryosly about it but be calm and also observe his moves style and attitudes if love pa sad gyud nimo siya but if not yet pa diay mo ready sa realtionship its not yet a relationship thas the time you must stop it pero masm aayo na mag storya mo

[emjee17]

am you know sis am bisan laki ko ha kasagaran baya mag binoang sa babae laki baya gyud pero di tanan laki ing-ana ky ako gani past reverse ako moy nasakitan kaayo but mo forgive man gyud ko and past is past most important is the present even single na lang ta forever basta malipay ta labi pa ika duha nani nakong kinabuhi ky dapat dead naman ko onya kasagaran sad sa babae pili-an gyud ang appearance man gud tan-awon og una mas maayo gyud inner beauty tan-awon og una pero sad noon di man tanan babae ing-ana cause actually getting into a seryos relationship both must love, care , comfort, help, trust, respect, honest and both has good attitudes, moves and style og dili na pang lingaw seryos na gyud na tinarong magkasinabot mong duha og malipayon mo onya ayaw gyud mog buhat anang *** onya nalang og minyo na mo


am in your problem sis there are many reasons pede na kuwang siyag pag salig nimo or pede sad na na-a siyay nahibaw-an na binuhatan nimo pede sad na tonogod sa pinangga kaayo ka niya mao ng morag makuyawan siya mao ngm angita gyud na siyan imo labi pa babae gud ka ako pa nimo sis talk to him seryosly about it but be calm and also observe his moves style and attitudes if love pa sad gyud nimo siya but if not yet pa diay mo ready sa realtionship its not yet a relationship thas the time you must stop it pero masm aayo na mag storya mo

Thanks bro.
Amo namang gi sturyaan, then last chance na pud ni niya.. kahibaw naman sad siya unsay mahitabo if ever ma usab na pud siya..