Originally Posted by
babypaupau
kbaw ka, this happened to me too. i got pregnant when i was 17, maguwang ra ug 3 months akong bf then. as in i was soo scared, dili tungod kay hadlok ko sa reaction sa akong mom but because i was thinking na its the end of the world for me. 1st year college pa bya ko when it happened and OSY pa jud akong uyab.i didnt tell my mom, sya ra nangutana nako.. murag 2 mos pa man tingali to akng tiyan ato. mothers always know jud, they can always tell if something is wrong.
i tell you,maglisod jud mo ana. as in it will be tough, specially kay dili mo prepared, financially and psychologocally. but kani ra jud akong ikasulti, put god in the center of ur relationship. it will really be a battle. pagpray mo together that you can survive the stress and trials kay it will test the both of you. ayaw decide dayun kay things would change between the two of you kay sooner or later either one of you will realize nga di na mao nga life iyang gusto nya magmahayay na dayun.
but babies are blessings. ako ato nga time, i was alone. very traumatic jud to nga experience. it didnt work out for us coz we were not prepared and we were very immature then. i guess what im trying to say is, the love that you have for each other now, you really have to take care of it coz that will get you through all of this. hold each other's hand and specially ikaw, you have to be strong for the two of you kay ikaw ang laki.ang experience niya now nga pregnant siya, that will have a very big effect on her...emotionally and psychologically. kumbaga, it will be a make or break for her. and whatever her disposition is, makita na sa inyong baby. you'll see.
on a lighter note, nindot kaau ng makita nimo imong baby. ma amaze ka at how little they are and then mudako lng ug kalit. ako bsan sa akong kalisod ato nga time (financially for the most part) wa jud ko namroblema ug gatas, meds, ug diaper sa akong baby kay inig mahurot na iyang diaper and wala na ko ipalit, maabot lng na kalit akong miga magbring ug vitamins, diapers and whatever. or akong sister in law or bsan kinsa, bsan among neighbors na d nako kaila. my prayers got me through the tough times so i hope it will also work wonders for the two of you sad. just keep the faith jud, He will never leave you empty. and di sd jud mo niya pasagdan. trust me on that one, maka attest jud ko.
hehehe...) her, and start a family. i would be glad to be part of your family. then knell down infront of the parents.
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