If You Cheat On Your Spouse...Are You A Bad Parent?

[yvonne6]

para nako yes oi. you may still show the kid how much you love her/him as a parent but its not enough. one of your obligations is to show a very good example to your offsprings. if you are a cheater, its like you are already telling your kids its okay to do it.

[rickflag]

para nako yes bad parent gyud ka. if you're cheating, chances are your family will end up a broken one.

[nitesky]

Let me ask you this:

1. If you cheat on your spouse, would that affect your family?
2. If yes, your child will be involved correct?
3. you said you dont have to tell them, but they are bound to find out later in their life, correct?
4. Now tell me, what would that imply to your child?

[cptn_star]

1. If you cheat on your spouse, would that affect your family?
---of course it will, it may not come that instant, but in the event that your spouse would know about it, it'll break the family apart.
2. If yes, your child will be involved correct?
---absolutely
3. you said you dont have to tell them, but they are bound to find out later in their life, correct?
---another point you got there
4. Now tell me, what would that imply to your child?
---if you dont want your children to grow up and become cheaters, be the good example

[lorainz]

it's really a bad example...

[princess_21]

nope you're only a bad partner but never a bad parent lahi rana silang duha

[gt_mugen]

actually this line s very noticeable....

highly seen now a days.....

[mr.dj]

depende if a man or woman cheated for valid reason, kung ang rason is falling out of love, unsaon man na nimo. magmalipayon kaha inyo pamilya kon wagtang na ang gugma. basta dili lang niya biyaan iya responsibility to the kids...ok ra na oi. kaysa paantuson nimo maayo imo partner

[cptn_star]

depende if a man or woman cheated for valid reason, kung ang rason is falling out of love, unsaon man na nimo. magmalipayon kaha inyo pamilya kon wagtang na ang gugma. basta dili lang niya biyaan iya responsibility to the kids...ok ra na oi. kaysa paantuson nimo maayo imo partner

there is no such "VALID REASON" to cheat....kng imo na gisugdan inyong kaminyuon, imo na humnon hangtod kamatayon....

[Bongoton]

No. My grandfather cheated on my grandmother and she knew it. I noticed this when they were in their 60's or 70's na so tigulang na, but my grandfather has been doing it since her youngest daughters were still kids. He was always travelling but still would come home to my grandmother, they would talk, they appear very gentle with each other.

So anyway, I don't think cheating makes a person a bad parent. In the case of my grandfather, he continued supporting his children emotionally and financially and all of his children adored him and looked up to him. He had his grave ready before he died in the land where he raised his family and left all properties to his children.

Pero wa lang ko kasabot.
It seems that marrying a good man is no guarantee for complete fidelity.

Born polygamous lagi ang men.. bisan unsa pa na ka buotan, nature gyud na nga mangita ug laing ka jer. ug di ta mo accept ana nga fact, di gyud ta kasabot.
Fidelity: This is where you separate a good man from a great one. Saludo gyud ko aning mga lalaki who remained faithful to their partners til the end. Despite their polygamous nature, they're strong enough to fight it and do the right thing.