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[cptn_star]

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1. what do you think of guys who cant make up their minds?
not all guys are gifted with the talent of using their wisdom quickly under pressure situations...some guys also need much time to think over of what to do...some guys consider the fact that there should be no room for mistakes, hence, the length of time they need to weigh things out
2. as far as i have observed: intelligent guys sucks in real life decisions.
some are, but not the most...mere intelligence alone cannot totally affect the decision making process of a guy or even to anybody wether a guy or a girl...there are many other factors that affects the decision making capability of guys...one thing is experience in life...a guy could be superbly intelligent but lacks experience leading to poor usage of wisdom in executing decisions...
3. how can you tell if a guy who doesn't says i love you, hold your hand, or doesn't kiss you anymore still loves you?
if he still cares, if he still values you, if he still want to have you around, if he still pushes some effort for you, and if he's still a good, loyal boy to you then i guess there isnt anything to be worried about at all...some guys just consider it awkward to make "lambing" for the reason that guys are guys and guys shouldnt be doing the "lambing" stuff (i totally oppose on that thought though...im a very malambing guy)...

[bluevenderlac]

1. what do you think of guys who cant make up their minds?
not all guys are gifted with the talent of using their wisdom quickly under pressure situations...some guys also need much time to think over of what to do...some guys consider the fact that there should be no room for mistakes, hence, the length of time they need to weigh things out
2. as far as i have observed: intelligent guys sucks in real life decisions.
some are, but not the most...mere intelligence alone cannot totally affect the decision making process of a guy or even to anybody wether a guy or a girl...there are many other factors that affects the decision making capability of guys...one thing is experience in life...a guy could be superbly intelligent but lacks experience leading to poor usage of wisdom in executing decisions...
3. how can you tell if a guy who doesn't says i love you, hold your hand, or doesn't kiss you anymore still loves you?
if he still cares, if he still values you, if he still want to have you around, if he still pushes some effort for you, and if he's still a good, loyal boy to you then i guess there isnt anything to be worried about at all...some guys just consider it awkward to make "lambing" for the reason that guys are guys and guys shouldnt be doing the "lambing" stuff (i totally oppose on that thought though...im a very malambing guy)...

Very well said!

[cptn_star]

Very well said!

just a matter of experience and observation with the fellow species...

[alexxx]

brad,,,,(girl ko ha,but that is how i call people i don't know[ma a an nuon ko laki..])...
ngano naa man mga laki nga bisag uyab pa gani..manghagad dayon ug tari...nya mangluod ra ba dayon if di pagusto.an....does it mean nga lawas ra ang gi apas ana nga guy sa girl


always consider the guy's reason for asking a relationship from a girl. if it is just about physical attraction, what's in his mind is just to have "contact" with the girl. nowadays "contact" is necessary in a relationship but i believe guys can wait and will wait if they really value the girl and the relationship. it is better if given than forcefully asked. it is normal for guys to ask for it but respects whatever the girls' decision. if he keeps on asking and doesn't care about anything, then that's the value of his girlfriend just for contact purposes. so girls be careful. i have encountered a lot of girls who asked for help and common problem is that they are pregnant and guys break up with them

[kenjie86]

Exp lng jud cguro...

[alexxx]

1. what do you think of guys who cant make up their minds?

- guys whose having a hard time making up decisions are the type of person who lacks experience, not a risk taker, not confident and worries a lot. experience teaches you a lot more than you can read in books or learn in school. experience provides instant result that allows practical and faster learning. more experience means knowing yourself better that gives self-confidence and courage to take risk. the result of the risk taken doesn't matter much because he knows how to handle success and bounce back from every mistakes.


2. as far as i have observed: intelligent guys sucks in real life decisions.

- person with high IQ has lower EQ. Emotional Quotient is a very important factor in making life decisions because it doesn't have any theory, formula or calculations but simply feelings and affections with regards to the world you are living in and the people you live with


3. how can you tell if a guy who doesn't says i love you, hold your hand, or doesn't kiss you anymore still loves you?

- consider his presence and thoughtfulness. those two are usually neglected when there is too much physical contact in the relationship because of the fact that it is expected to be present. but when there is no contact, presence and thoughtfulness are the most noticeable factor.

[alexxx]

UP................

[alexxx]

up.................

[kenjie86]

nganu kaha uban laki sa nga lawasnong kalipay raman puy ge apas. . .
hahahaha. . unya ug ma pul.an na buwagan daun ang babae . . ngita daun ug lain. .
tsk. . .

Ngano man sad ang babae nga permihon man sad.. mao mapul-an..

[pael85]

sa mga taw diay na taas ug EQ then low ug IQ? unsa mana sila