
Originally Posted by
mak83
just a question. nanguyab na ba ka niya? if so, how long na?
here's my take. i always believe and follow the 70-30 principle. meaning, 70% actions then 30% words. girls and ladies nowadays are wise and di na madala sa istorya lang. no matter how sweet you are in talking to her, it's not enough. you need to show it through actions, in other words, prove it, walk the talk.
don't really be discouraged or feel down if she's trying to push you away. as long as she never says "NO", padayun lang gyud bai. girls have this defense mechanism and way of driving away the fake ones and keep the real ones labi na kung daghan ang nanguyab niya. she might just be testing you how sincere you really are towards her or simply put "how much do you really want her". girls are not like us men nga kung dili, dili na gyud. be consistent and persistent. females are emotional beings and they fall for people who can make them feel so special.
regarding words? very simple yet sincere lines such as "take care", "i care", daily greetings, and the like can go a long way if done consistently. falling in love, getting into a relationship, and keeping it is a process and hard work. as one of my friends put it, ang manag uyab mura ra na ug negosyo. you start small and work so hard to win the heart of the one you like/love. it requires lots of patience, hard and smart work, and even creativity but the most important thing is that you have your heart in it.
sweet talk her everyday lang bai and show her that you can be with her. kung molakaw siya, ingna "take care", "ingat", or "amping", kung buntag or gabii, greet her "good morning" or "good evening", and in the middle of the day randomly during any time of the week, send her some sms or maybe call her just to let her know that you're thinking about her or maybe send her sweet sms quotes. pirmiha lang gyud bai and you'll get into her heart and head lang gyud soon enough.
i'm not really an advocate of pick up lines or one-liners. trabaho lang gyud bai. it's better to build it gradually yet surely rather than kalit2. easy come, easy go.