HELP My Husband is a good man but I'm in love with someone else

[rymangga]

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hmmm Go back to your first love...what are the root cause that makes you in love with another person?maybe reading romance like pocketbooks that awakens your fantasy that you wont get from your husband?what are his actions to you that leads you to fall out of love to him?ponder upon this questions and be honest to your husband tell him the truth.relationships is work + lots of commitment. i hope you both can work it out.

[hardawayray]

stay with youra husband make god a center of your relationship mao na ang laki nanguyab nimo kay nag paila pud ka sa lihok nimo na inloave pud ka huna huna dili lalim ang mahigugma mas maayo stay with your husband mag opaen furom mo about sa situation ninyo or magbakasyon ba moa chanage your sim para dli na ka contact ang laki nimao palayo niya mark my word malimtan ra na nimo cya imagina na ang aginoo nag cge tan aw nimo masakpan ra gihapon mo if amag tago tagoa mo

[luke]

kalibug ani oi.. pero ad2 lang sa imo husband oi.. ay napd pakigkita sa lain. lisud na.. magkagubot ra nya mo.. pero naa raman sd na nmo.. pero para sa ako.. ad2 jd sa imo husband..naa namu anak?

[rea`]

-- sis ive read somewhere na ang start sa failure sa usa ka relationship is when you fail to see the 80% goodness and all you can think of is the 20% na "pagkuwang". try daw to list all good things na iya gbuhat for you. and list all the failures he has. then tan-awa asa mas daghan. i am sure, kung nabusy man gani siya ron sa inyu business its because for the future of your family.

second sis, we girls have the tendency na mafall dayun ug guy na magpakita ug care and love nato, especially if mao na ato gipangita. but then again, it is not guaranteed man na ang next guy would be the guy who can "complete" you. then you would get hurt and wala naka padulngan dba?

third, ig larga nimo padung pinas, say everything to your husband. sis, you did something wrong. if ever masuko siya, sumbagon ka niya or something, try to take it in. it is the consequence of your actions. he will be mad kung love ka niya. and wa siya paki kung dili na. you would know how important you are to him with the way morespond siya sa imong pag-angkon sa imong sala.

lastly, guarantee him that you will start again. that way, mosugot siya pacounsel mo. as long as kaya pa, save the marriage sis. coz naa man gd psychological effect ang buwag-buwag. lahi ra jud if you fight for your relationship and do something about it. in the end, malipay jud ka. genuine happiness.

if he loves you, he will do everything to win your love back. so dont be afraid, i am sure he loves u that much sis.

tc!

[waynedrops2]

louya sa imong bana uy, but you know you might as well leave him hes better off without you.

[DRL]

siguro tanan man married couple moagi jud ani nga mga trials...if busy imong husband sa negosyo d imo cya tabangan para mgkauban mo perme kaysa sige ka ingon nga busy wa nay panahon...siguro gibuhat na sa imong bana para sa inyo tanan and i think wala pamo mga anak?so maybe he's preparing for your better future...try to understand each other's side...try to realize nga married naka and before mo pakasal niatubang mo ug nanumpa mo before kay God. Sa akong nabasa sa imong gpost, murag naglibog ka karon?maglibog jud ka kay naa man ka lain laki..in the first place pgaway ninu miadto ka sa imong laki?so naa jud nahitabo ninu didto ayaw ko ingana nga nagpray ramo didto sa hauz sa imong laki and that's adultery already. Siguro ang prob naa nimo, bootan man kaha imong bana and imo lang reklamo kay busy sa negosyo, why not support him nalang...?Think twice lang sis...ganahan man di ka masave inyo marriage and sige paka panglaki...putla na imong relasyon sa imong laki and try to talk with ur husband para maresolve ang problem kaysa taga away ninyo adto ka sa imong laki...it's very unfair jud para sa imong bana..he's doing everything to provide you what you need and he's working hard for your better future...

[kazuya]

are you willing to be called burikat if makig buwag ka sa imung bana? think about it.

casin eyut2x ra imung problema huh.....if thats the case.... ka mabaw nimu ug kalipay
marriage is more than just that... its commitment, understanding, and sacrifice.



from the way i see it... you are just acting selfish lang gyud..

Ps.... @nitwit----> naa ba muy anak karon?

buang gyd kaayu ka if mu patol ka atong guy... basin ki-tilawtilawan ra ka anag guy... ang naa ka under sa iyang illusion.

i think this language is way over the line....

[lizerdz18]

hayz! nalingaw jud ko ug basabasa sa thread from 1-28..hehehe

[monochromatic]

if you want to work things out then tell him bsin mkarealize ra na xa nga naa xay pagkuwang nmu. your marriage wont work kung dli mo mgtinabangay sa imu bana.

[vp-rakista]

gidungagan lang gyud nimu imu problema... sulbara na problema ninyo sa pamilya oi, ayaw himoa rason ang inyo problema aron makapangabit ka... pataka ka lang hisgot na in-love ka laing man... iparok usa na imu ulo aron makamatngon ka...

kay nagtoo diay ka magdugay na og forever na relasyon nimu sa imu kabit? dili kaha pang *** lang na inyo? granting magtuman ka nya mag-ipon mo, nig magka-problema napud mo ngita napud ka lain pag xure diha oi!!!!