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[kebot]

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Hmm. Brad i read your posts and I could say yeah kasaligan imo mga advice. Pro cguro ka.

But ako brad tanan nako X still friend pa japon nako... I mean i can talk to them even though I hurt them. My point is, If you can save friendship save it. You never know. Just let the girl realize and admit you cannot live with his/her attitude or you have the valid reason why. It hurts brad but it doesnt mean you dont like him/her. The difference lang sa ako honesty brad is that nakig break ko sa ako mga x na walay third party. (But to be honest I do have some extra extra.. or mga 1 nite... but they are not third party per-see).

Its a bit harder lang buhaton, kay di malikayang mingawn ka or imo sungogon imo LABS especially when you feel the need to be cuddled.

For those who want to break up. Break it, dont waste your time.

IMO: Mas gas2 bya uyab2 brad kaysa naay uyab. So guys if you want to start again make sure you have your pocket filled.

[Fern]

Hmm. Brad i read your posts and I could say yeah kasaligan imo mga advice. Pro cguro ka.
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it doesnt mean that your a paker... you can say cguro ka....

si doc ni tabang lang ug give light sa situation sa mga nag ask. para mak think clearly sa situation and "ANALYZE" the issue

I know guys nga paker lifestyle and they think they are much better person than a geek+dork=psychotic.

i hope you dont belong to that class.

[kebot]

I dont know whats "PAKER" brad. Well yea as i have said kasaligan iyang mga advice. About lifestyle its just a matter of what you have and what you dont have, its usually a choice. if you say i belong to this "paker" lifestyle well its a choice brad because of chance. I have time so why spent my time on sleeping Id rather go somewhere else. Right?

[kebot]

I said "PRO" means Professional... hehehe

[XOXOXO]

lol nice advices

[Soul Doctor]

lol nice advices

thanks @hugs and kisses!

[V@nity]

This is because he sees you as a weak person.
He can easily manipulate you and other women he knew.
Be strong this time.
Learn from your pain.
Learn from your mistakes.
They are all lessons in life.
Learn from them.

Doc, why after what happened I really feel unwanted? I got a tx from him this morning that he can't work things out. And he chose to plan his future to his new girl. Yeah, before na kami pa same sad we plan our future this and that. I am just being jealous lang cguro kasi im fat and ugly when he left kasi bagong panganak wala pang 1month. And yun pinalitan ako nang mas skinny pa and mas well-off ang family. Nag daydream paman cguro ko na happy-family-sa-among-baby even bati iyang batasan gpakita sa akong parents. Why man mka feel pko ug frustrations, disappointment
and anger na kahibalo nman jud ko mao ni akong gusto, na eliminate xa sa akong life coz been a toxic - emotionally - abusive ko sa among relationship? I really want to see how his bad karma. I really want to see how down he is. Im so mad at him coz wala jud xa word of honor sa tanan gpanulti nya, kay bz-xa-dont-pressure-him stuff. I regret why nkasugat ko ug ingun ana nga lalaki. Maau lang sa primero. Unsa man jud akong buhaton na mahunong nsad ni akong mga na feel. Naa ra sad ko sa balay nag work at the same time babysitting. Pili-an sad ko ug ktalk, gusto ko matured ang akong ka istorya. Dri nlang ko kay wala man sad na kaila nko dri and I found out u r really that matured talaga to give advises.

[histrionic0311]

it doesnt mean that your a paker... you can say cguro ka....

si doc ni tabang lang ug give light sa situation sa mga nag ask. para mak think clearly sa situation and "ANALYZE" the issue

I know guys nga paker lifestyle and they think they are much better person than a geek+dork=psychotic.

i hope you dont belong to that class.

yeah, i agree with you.. the thread starter has clearly stated that the problems that you have are not totally answered by him, but it gives you some hints and opinions that can correlate with your problem on hand..

and he is not a psychic..

I dont know whats "PAKER" brad. Well yea as i have said kasaligan iyang mga advice. About lifestyle its just a matter of what you have and what you dont have, its usually a choice. if you say i belong to this "paker" lifestyle well its a choice brad because of chance. I have time so why spent my time on sleeping Id rather go somewhere else. Right?

we didn't ask for what is your choice. your choice is your own, we have our own as well.. but this is going way off hand.. let's go back to the topic and cool down, ok??

doc i have a situation:

we didn't have any communication for a week but we are not arguing over a thing or we didn't have any fights.. i told her if there is something wrong, and she said: "no, there is nothing wrong between us." what will i do if the next time this situation would punctuate again?

[Soul Doctor]

Doc, why after what happened I really feel unwanted? I got a tx from him this morning that he can't work things out. And he chose to plan his future to his new girl. Yeah, before na kami pa same sad we plan our future this and that. I am just being jealous lang cguro kasi im fat and ugly when he left kasi bagong panganak wala pang 1month. And yun pinalitan ako nang mas skinny pa and mas well-off ang family. Nag daydream paman cguro ko na happy-family-sa-among-baby even bati iyang batasan gpakita sa akong parents. Why man mka feel pko ug frustrations, disappointment
and anger na kahibalo nman jud ko mao ni akong gusto, na eliminate xa sa akong life coz been a toxic - emotionally - abusive ko sa among relationship? I really want to see how his bad karma. I really want to see how down he is. Im so mad at him coz wala jud xa word of honor sa tanan gpanulti nya, kay bz-xa-dont-pressure-him stuff. I regret why nkasugat ko ug ingun ana nga lalaki. Maau lang sa primero. Unsa man jud akong buhaton na mahunong nsad ni akong mga na feel. Naa ra sad ko sa balay nag work at the same time babysitting. Pili-an sad ko ug ktalk, gusto ko matured ang akong ka istorya. Dri nlang ko kay wala man sad na kaila nko dri and I found out u r really that matured talaga to give advises.

Normal ra na imong nafeel.
Because now you realized that you really lost him.

Normal sad na nga ma-abusive ka.
Kay tinagaan gud nimo siya sa tanan.
Side effect lang na siya ang pagka-abusive nimo
sa imong "disease to please" him.
So the next time you love someone, do not give him everything (material things).
This will make men lose their respect on you.

[Soul Doctor]

yeah, i agree with you.. the thread starter has clearly stated that the problems that you have are not totally answered by him, but it gives you some hints and opinions that can correlate with your problem on hand..

and he is not a psychic..




we didn't ask for what is your choice. your choice is your own, we have our own as well.. but this is going way off hand.. let's go back to the topic and cool down, ok??

doc i have a situation:

we didn't have any communication for a week but we are not arguing over a thing or we didn't have any fights.. i told her if there is something wrong, and she said: "no, there is nothing wrong between us." what will i do if the next time this situation would punctuate again?

When women say there is nothing wrong between us,
it means that "if you really love me, you should find ways to know whats wrong between us"

Girls are not like boys, we just open a bottle of beer and then we start talking about our problems.
Girls needs more probing.
You have to be very observant and sensitive - to draw out their problems.

next time, if she says that there is nothing wrong between us,
Tell her "then why do i get this feeling there is something wrong between us?".
Then probe some more.