Suyaa nako sa ako nafeel karun wui. Ngano kiligon man jud ko sa ako x wui? Kalit lang xa nag PM nako sa YM. ingon xa Ella. Nangumusta, chat2x mi gamay parte sa business, then kalit xa ask bout ako lovelife. Wala ko katubag dayon. siguro mga 5 mins. ingon ko i hope i will be happy soon. Mao ra jud na ako naingon. Then he asked for my number again kay nawala daw iya phone.
Before he left for practice he said. Oh btw, I am wearing right now the shirt that you gave me. i laughed and said really? he said yes, he brought the things that i have given him. (He is already based in Guam, manages their family business there.) He said kulang nalang daw ang box sa ako gisudlan sa paghatag nako before ug ang dried mangoes nga madaot na. He broke up with me years ago. why? he said to me that I wasn't ready. I have a blur memory why we really broke up, maybe i was still immature that time. I was younger. Funny, as i was typing this it made me realize why he suddenly blurted, ibang iba ka na ella. Maybe it's because I have priorities now. Before, I was a happy go lucky person. I told him i have a small business on my own.
But why do i feel happy when he chatted with me? What's ironic is that i also have thought of him this afternoon. Everytime i could see him online in YM. Bahala na dili ko niya tagdon. He still makes me smile.
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06-08-2009, 11:41 PM #231
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06-09-2009, 07:58 AM #232This is what is wrong with our culture.
Originally Posted by sh4ntee
We let the children support the parents and the rest of the family.
Parent should provide for their children not the other way around.
Its a tough situation to be in love
especially when both are supporting their parents and their families.
Okay lang kung isa.
Pero kung dalawa na.
Mahirap yata yun.
Having one support his family is tough enough.
I guess if they really love each other, the have to get married.
They should look out for themselves.
Let their family find other means.
Let them work.
When we got married, my wife was partially supporting her parents.
She pays rent for her own room in their own house.
She was single and working and most of her pay goes to their grocery expense.
When we already are married,
I ask her to stop supporting her parent
because we could not afford it anymore
since we have our own kid now
and I was a fresh college grad
and I do not have a job yet..
We gave them a sack of rice a month, and thats it.
This made a wrong signal to them and ever since that day they wanted to separate us.
They do anything to break us,
because they said she could still marry a foreigner if we broke up.Last edited by Soul Doctor; 06-09-2009 at 10:00 PM.
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06-09-2009, 08:01 AM #233Yes, in time, he will forget all about it. Originally Posted by jelousofthe1
Just let him be.
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06-09-2009, 08:05 AM #234He is just lonely. Originally Posted by elia
And we always search for old friends when we get lonely.
Its normal to feel happy talking to someone familiar.
Especially if you shared wonderful moments with this someone before.
Things and old feeling will always come back to remind you.
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06-09-2009, 11:50 AM #235Junior Member
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You mean bah na I will not settle with him anymore and move on? He got issues from the past related to infidelity. But why man doc, mo attest lagi akong sub-conscious na he'll soon honor his words. Cguro man gud man cge xa ug ingun nako na ma okay ra daw ang tanan, he don't need to be pressured and he needs time. Pero karon samot man gani akong duda labi na officemate cla sa iyang babae dn iya na gani na dala sa family gathering lately. Pero since iya nman tawn gpakita sa iyang pamilya na exclusively dating cla. Why pman intawn mo suggest xa mkig balik nako/ namo. Wala man sad ko naghabul nya. Ako nman sad xa g-ingnan na makita xa sa bata ug mka spend time sa bb kung ari-un niya ug tuyo sa balay but that doesn't mean open ko nya sa akong personal life. And dli man sad xa gusto ana. Mao gusto xa mkig balik. Kama-ayong putlan doc oi.. nganu man tawn mosamuk pa na ilaha man gpili na gub-on ang relationship. Na nakakita na xa ug kapuli. And his new girl sad naa xa daw bf na americano, nakakita ko sa profile sa girl sa fs and dun pman mga happy moments nya sa white guy. Hayyy, i deserve a decent man pero when im ready na. My ex keeps bothering me. Want to totally cut off the commu like ichange nko among number sa balay nlang. And iya nlang source to see the child is to visit us here sa balay. I dont like to change my mobile number nman sad. Done it many times na. Pero karon ako nman isnob iyang call. I want sad bya naa xa bonding sa amo bb pero mas gnahan xa na kaming 3. Naglibog nsad ko sa iyang mga lihuk ug thinking doc. Tabang! Originally Posted by Soul Doctor
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06-09-2009, 01:19 PM #236This is because he sees you as a weak person. Originally Posted by V@nity
He can easily manipulate you and other women he knew.
Be strong this time.
Learn from your pain.
Learn from your mistakes.
They are all lessons in life.
Learn from them.
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06-09-2009, 03:59 PM #237Elite Member
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Dok,
Unsaon pgbrek ug relationship?
Kanang dli masakitan ang babae..
Atot oiz.. ganahan nko mu buwag sa ako UyaB karon dli mn ko kahimo ky mo hilak man gud..
PM lng ko dok.
Thanks.
Kenj
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06-10-2009, 11:18 AM #238Theres a way to break up indirectly. Originally Posted by kenjie86
Pretend you are texting someone else. (example a friend)
There in your message, tell all why you want to break up with her.
Be specific. Include time and dates, situations, problems etc.
Make it long and thorough.
Write as much as you can.
Then send it to her number.
Wait for her reaction.
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06-10-2009, 11:19 AM #239
I hope dili ka makigbreak niya kay dili siya uyon sa imong pagsigeg duwa og dota.
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06-10-2009, 11:40 AM #240
After the love has gone... why lead on?
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