Ask me any question about relationships

[Soul Doctor]

mao pod. but definitely im not doing it again.
di nako ma.handle ang drama u stress ui. haiz.
pero kung mg.communicate pa mi sa 3rd party,
di ba gihapon na 'cheating'?
for the sake of the friendship lang unta.
kay friend man gud to nako. and somehow ni.care pa pod ko niya.
but not as much as i care sa feelings sa ako uyab.
and im gonna make it clear lng, wa koi plano nga manguyab ato niya.
naanad lang ko magcge mi talk sa fone.

ingnon nako ako uyab nga nag.commu gihapon mi?
or should i just keep it to myself but swear never to cross the line again..?

Thats the difference between men and boys.
Boys do not know what they want. Men do.
If you are acting like a boy.
You want this lady friend but you do not want her to be your gf.
But you talked to her on phone, for what?
If you have a girlfriend then you do not need a friend anymore, do you?

[Soul Doctor]

^^sir, nya d man cya busy.. gikapoy na lagi ko..pasagdaan nlang cguro nako..thanks sir

How old are you and how old is he?
basin tiguwang na siya, hinay na iyang memory?
basin palahubog?
hurot na kadamage ang brain cells para mahinumdum.
Basin addict-addict?
Walay nay mas -importante nila
kundi ang makascore pagusab og bato.
Basin sugarol? Hinumduman lang niya ang petsa sa sunod derby.

In short dili ka importante kaayo para niya.
Pero walay apil sa kwenta ang monthsary ha.
Binata(childish) man gud kaayo na.

[achibaby]

im 23 he's 22
he doesnt drink, walay bisyo, wala tanan
dali lang gyud cya malingaw ug isa ka butang like videoke, mag bike2x, dota or bsan unsa na lingaw..

ok rman nako na ang monthsary but ang amu anniv 2 times na niya nalimtan..ambot lang kaha ron ika 3rd namu kung mahinumduman ba niya..

[elia]

Gisapot ko karun kay ngano? Ako uyab nakadungog kog sturya nga naa daw ning hilak nga iyang uyab-uyab kuno ngari sa Cebu nga dugay na daw sya wala ning balik. Ako siya gipangutana. ingon siya basin gidaot napud siya sa ako kaila. Dili daw ko dapat moto.o adto nila pirmi kay basin akong kaila iya gituyo nga magaway napud mi kay basin ireto kog lain sa ako kaila. Ang ako lang ba kay nasuko ako bf ngano daw dili ko kasabot nga wala man jud daw siyay lain. Dugay na daw sila buwag adto nga girl. Dah ambot giingnan ko ugma nalang daw mi magtiwas ug sturya kay sapoton daw sya dili napud daw sya katulog ug tarung. Nah ako kay gisapot ako sya gibutangan sa telepono.


What man ako buhaton?

[jelousofthe1]

hi brad..a.sk lang jud ko...uhmmm...buwag na mi sa akong uyab,,,and i have a new guy right now...but kato nagkita mi sa akong ex,nya wa ko niya tagda,na bothered ko.gisapot jud ko ato kay ni una ko ug tagad niya,nya mura ra xia ug wa ka kita nako..then gi delete pa jud ko niya sa iyang friends sa fs...mura man ko ug affected...ngano kaha...

[kathcute_rose]

Yes!
You are choking him.
You may be obsessive.

Try working.
Wash your clothes.
Clean the house.
Cook food.
Make some money by buying and selling.

Maybe you are not used to doing this activities.
But this is what you need to do to have self worth.

You girls think that you need boys to be happy.
You do not.
You just have to empower yourself internally.
Meaning, you learn woman skills.
Survival skills.
Once you have all of this,
then boys will see you as someone worth loving
or men will see you as someone worth marrying.

And they will come running after you, not the other way around.

so its true....na ako na jud siya na pugngan....okay... because kani na advise.. ill try na mag usab for my boyfriend.. hinay hinay lang ko usab coz i know di daun diha mka usab sa akong self... so its na jud na paranoid na jud ko... okay okay okay... mag usab ko para sa among duha... di ko mag promise but akong buhaton...thanks kaau sa advise doki... thanks kaau sa tanan... thanks,,, more power and God Bless...

[handsoff241]

doc pwede nimo ilisan ang kanang mga dj sa FM stations nga murag korek?

[V@nity]

See?
The problem with girls is they assume that guys like him will change.
But the truth is- it will get worse and worse.

The same thing with guy that are:

Smokers
Drinkers
Gamblers
Drug Addicts
Womanizers

Never ever think for a moment
that they will change because they love you.
That may be their "script".
But trust me, they'll never change for the better.

Doc, nakig-kita xa lastnight. And he wanted to patch things up, makigbalik xa. Pero wala pa nya gbuwagan iyang ka.flirt2x run. Kung ako lang, g.dump na nako xa. Pero naa mi baby. He wanted to fix things kuno, and he wants enough time. He really like to go out with our baby but im not comfortable na magkuyog2x mi dn naa xay mga butang na wala pa niya na sulbad. I want to give him chance, again! proved his worth into action na talaga. Pero im not affected sa iyang planu mkig balik coz basin storya nsad. Wla na bya sad koy contact2x nya. He keeps calling me pman. Pero now, ako ghapon i.continue akong no-contact-rule sa iyaha. Dli pman sad ko ka ingun nga sincere xa. Lisud man kaau isalig na ug tao nga ni betray na sa akong pagsalig. I deserve some1 better na dli player, womanizer or naay personality crisis. I asked him y nabuhat nya ingun xa personality crisis daw nya.

[rod_x]

Thats the difference between men and boys.
Boys do not know what they want. Men do.
If you are acting like a boy.
You want this lady friend but you do not want her to be your gf.
But you talked to her on phone, for what?
If you have a girlfriend then you do not need a friend anymore, do you?

hmm. yeah.
i just want the friendship. that's all.
and i still need a friend of course.
so do you think what i'm doing is okay?

[Soul Doctor]

Gisapot ko karun kay ngano? Ako uyab nakadungog kog sturya nga naa daw ning hilak nga iyang uyab-uyab kuno ngari sa Cebu nga dugay na daw sya wala ning balik. Ako siya gipangutana. ingon siya basin gidaot napud siya sa ako kaila. Dili daw ko dapat moto.o adto nila pirmi kay basin akong kaila iya gituyo nga magaway napud mi kay basin ireto kog lain sa ako kaila. Ang ako lang ba kay nasuko ako bf ngano daw dili ko kasabot nga wala man jud daw siyay lain. Dugay na daw sila buwag adto nga girl. Dah ambot giingnan ko ugma nalang daw mi magtiwas ug sturya kay sapoton daw sya dili napud daw sya katulog ug tarung. Nah ako kay gisapot ako sya gibutangan sa telepono.


What man ako buhaton?

The problem with other girls is they judge their boyfriends right away.

Listen to both sides.
Don't go judging anyone first.
You already heard what your friends have said.
Now give him time to say his side of the story.
Note:
Do not judge him first.
Just listen to his story.
But, be observant of the way he talks.
There are signs when a person lies to you.
Look him in the eye when you are speaking.
Most liars do not look you straight in the eye when they are lying.
But, my daughter can lie with a straight face, so just trust your instincts.

Talk to him when he is ready.
Get your facts straight before you confront him with anything.