Ask me any question about relationships

[Soul Doctor]

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doc, i have a question.. why do we have to engage into a commitment when it comes into relationships??

It all depends on what you want with your relationship.

If you just want to play around,
then you do not want commitment.

But if you want your relationship to last,
you need to be reassured by your partner
that whatever happens--your relationship will last.
Thats when you need commitment from the other partner.

[Fern]

Guru Soul Doctor...

i dont want to hate her anymore.... because mao tingali nga na salbahes ko sa opposite gender.


i want to change... i want to love again... for my sake. and akong kausaban.

but still i cannot forget iyang ki buhat sa ako...


Unsaon ni nako Master Guru.... its like ki ganhan na ko sa nga pirme ko hatefull .... but at the same time i want to change.

thanks,

Fern
your Disciple

[Sol_Itaire]

Doc,

When is it easy to walk away from a relationship?

Sol_Itaire

[YM24]

how can u tell kung ang girl care kaau sa among relasyon??

[nitesky]

doc,

how can you leave a person you care so much?

nite

[ranmauelle]

[QOUTE]Originally Posted by tams7154 View Post
Thanks! your explanation is very enlightening. Follow up, so Doc, am I really obliged to help a family member? [/QUOTE]

Yes,
As they always say---
Charity begins at home.

i agree, charity begins at home but i guess we are not obliged to.
it is up to us if we will help our family but it is not an obligation
just an opinion lng




soul doc, my question is why does a person hurt the person he/she really love?
like in a relationship, mag-away or masakitan man jud nato ang atoang partner? is it because of pride?

[Soul Doctor]

Doc,

When is it easy to walk away from a relationship?

Sol_Itaire

When you walk away with your pride still intact.

[Soul Doctor]

Guru Soul Doctor...

i dont want to hate her anymore.... because mao tingali nga na salbahes ko sa opposite gender.


i want to change... i want to love again... for my sake. and akong kausaban.

but still i cannot forget iyang ki buhat sa ako...


Unsaon ni nako Master Guru.... its like ki ganhan na ko sa nga pirme ko hatefull .... but at the same time i want to change.

thanks,

Fern
your Disciple

This is because you keep judging her.

We guys always get out of the relationship still clueless of the cause of the problem.
Unlike girls, they want to talk about their problems with us.
We dont want to hear that.
So we often fail to recognize or identify the problem.
We end up blaming them.

[Soul Doctor]

how can u tell kung ang girl care kaau sa among relasyon??

Love is always measured by the quality of time you spend with each other.
If she does everything to get your trust.
Which includes making you priority over her friends.

[Soul Doctor]

doc,

how can you leave a person you care so much?

nite

if you care for that person, you are not leaving him.
You just choose not to see him.
But your heart will still be with him.

This is painful only if you expect more from that.
Do not expect to see him anymore.
Do not expect him to think about you or text you.