HELP My Husband is a good man but I'm in love with someone else

[ongkal]

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im not running away maam.ive spoke to my hubby last night about it, he was stunned, i was scared as well of what he might do.lucky he didnt hit me he just said we're both gonna take a break but he'll see if he could take a break since work means so much to him.( ive felt so hurt when he said this). but he agreed that i can get a break for myself and think it overand he'll see if he can fly a week or two after. ive told him everything, all my heartaches. he was really mad and he called me names but ive accepted it all cause i had my fault. i told him i wont expect that he can forgive me,if he want to kick me out of the house then his free to do so. or get a divorce. he said we'll try to work it out and see what happens. i dont wanna loose him, i dont want this just for bugger all. i dont want to be in the list of divorcee as much as possible. he said lucky i didnt sleep with any guy otherwise we can never work it out cause he wont tolerate deceit. he said he understand that i wanna take a break not to get away really with it but to weigh things up and see if i really do love him and stay or move on. i made him realized that if he wasnt that busy, my feelings wont be passed on someone else. we're couples but it was like we never act like one. i dont know if this is a good news cause were still on the stage on sorting things out.

i think you should have talked to him about his being busy before you decided to flirt with the other guy.

[nitwit]

i think you should have talked to him about his being busy before you decided to flirt with the other guy.

i did..but he always say later. infact last night, when i approach him if we could talk,he said later. but i couldnt wait any longer so i took and deep breath and said, im inlove with someone else. that shocked him and he looked at me like he wanna kill me. that caught his attention i think.

[Fern]

i did..but he always say later. infact last night, when i approach him if we could talk,he said later. but i couldnt wait any longer so i took and deep breath and said, im inlove with someone else. that shocked him and he looked at me like he wanna kill me. that caught his attention i think.

mao na ni ka churva ani oie... mura man ni ug Pang "maala-ala mu kaya"

maypa mag pa dala kaug story ni charo santos.... basin i romanticize ni charo sanots imung story... making you the Heroine...

and i think thats also what you want to hear.

[Sol_Itaire]

then again sis, di na masulbad kung imong attention nahati na. have you gotten rid of the kabit? he doesn't have a place in your marriage.

unya nalang pangita og lain kung divorced na ka. do not complicate things.

[rod_x]

i did..but he always say later. infact last night, when i approach him if we could talk,he said later. but i couldnt wait any longer so i took and deep breath and said, im inlove with someone else. that shocked him and he looked at me like he wanna kill me. that caught his attention i think.

palakpak, mareh.
hehe. this is a very creative way to get his attention indeed.
maygani wala ka niya gidapog but listened to you instead.
this is a big step na para ma.resolve ang issue.
good luck!

:P

[Fern]

nitwit: pakit-a sako sa imo nawong be so i can tell you who you are

lolz... aywa lnalng part.... pbasin mu baga ang atay ani niya

[Fern]

ive noticed sir,you spoke to me like you know me well. it sounds like to me that you want to insist that i have slept with any guys other than my husband. well, as ive said above, i cant prove it to you and i dont think i owe you a proof since your not my husband. ive posted this thread here for me to express how i feel. this is istorya right? to communicate?express and exchange thoughts? i understand you are just stating your thoughts, but isnt it over the belt naman pud?

this is not thoughts.... this is forecasting your how your weak human mind works

[jorja986]

Goodluck Sis...I hope ma okay ra mo duha sa inyo hubby sa inyo problema karon..at least nakahibawo na siya..Ayaw lang mo pagbuwag ui...Likayi na lang tong guy. Focus na lang ka sa imung hubby nga busy...

[uncleting]

^^ bro hinay2xa lng pud na c nitwit. tagai lng pud cya ug gamayng pagsabot. tanan tao cguro dli man perpekto. naa munjud tay weakness. ni post cguro cya ani nga thread pra ma enlighten iya mind ug ma tagaan ug mga tambag na pra nya mka ayo sa ilang pamilya. peace lng ta tanan.. relaks gamay, nya ginhawa ug lawm. hehehe.

[uncleting]

ako post alng diay to kang brader fern. hehehe. na unhan mangud ko ug post. hehehe